ANSWERS: 24
  • No i dont think you are wrong for being upset you just want him next to you and you are probably feeling like at ay given moment he could slip through your hands. Believe in your relationship and talk to your man because if there is real love then anything is possible. COMMUNICATION SWEETIE. It is the best thing to have in a relationship.
  • You should force him to come with you to bed. Tell him before it's too late.
  • I don't think you're wrong. However, if he is sleeping all day, that's probably why he's on AB all night. AB can be very, very addictive.
  • Not at all. I went through this crap when my boyfriend got a night job. I was always sleeping alone. I hated it. Luckily he snagged a day job and now he sleeps with me again. I sleep better that way.
  • Try taking off those nasty slippers and Flannel Night Gown. LOL, Talk to him and tell him how you feel. If he would rather be on AB than in Bed with you, There maybe other problems you need to address.
  • wait ... he's on the computer all night (and NOT just on AB by the way) and sleeps all day??? when does HE go to work??? ... there's lots bigger issues than your sleeping habits ... time to have a LONG and SERIOUS discussion with him
  • I think you've probably reached that "comfortable zone" in your relationship where he's now taking you for "granted"! He'll ONLY do it for as long as YOU condone it! Put your foot down and discuss it with him. . . .OR. . . . "move on". . . . . WITHOUT him!
  • Why don't you lure him to bed...?
  • I would hope you could tell him how you feel and work something out. If that doesn't work maybe the relationship was "over" anyway and it's time to move on.
  • No you are not wrong to be upset that he doesnt come to bed with you. Sounds like he is preoccupied with the computer...I'm sure their are a few people round like that. Maybe you could get busy with something yourself...something where he may miss you. If its happening every night...its not right. Perhaps you could secretly sabotage the internet and then show him what he's been missing.
  • tell you are jealous of AB and the internet. he loves it more than you. he is addicted to ab...many are...not me of course. BTW did you know AB has many scripts running that can invade your email and your hard drive for personal information. i just learned this so I am gonna be off line a lot more.
  • i'd be more upset that he wasn't working...what a loser
  • Tell Him You're banning sex forever, until He changes. If You have a stronger will than He does of course. :)
  • No you're not wrong. He is probably using AB to keep his mind from worrying about the job situation. But it won't decrease his worries if it causes him relationship issues.
  • Pull up a cot or matress next to him and his ABing arse, and hover over what he's doing like a nosy little neighbor, do all of this naked. He'll bite.
  • Lemme get this straight. He plays while you sleep and sleeps while you work. Guessing he doesn't work. Ummm, wanna get married? You can support us both, right?
  • You need to talk to him. If you don't accuse him or insult him and calmly explain, maybe he will understand. If he is on AB all the time and it is causing him to ignore you constantly, then that is not right.
  • What he is doing is not right. If he really Loves you, he would be there beside you when you are sleeping. Then he could wake up in the morning and go Job Hunting! So no, you are not wrong to be upset with him.
  • ah, that sucks. Tell him he needs to give you snuggles and back up off Ab....
  • I think you should stop being so controlling. AB needs him more than you do!!!
  • Assuming all other facets of your relationship are OK, I would say you are being selfish and controlling. If you are asleep, what difference does it make if he is there or not (assuming he isn't doing bad things). However, if this AB time is cutting into other aspects of your lives, such as his work (does he?) our the waking time you spend together, then you have a point.
  • Out of interest, does he work?
  • Whatever you do, don't bring this up on AB because he might read it and...oh, never mind.
  • maybe you should get another boyfriend

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