For those of you who have divorced, what was the final straw for you?
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when she ran away with her 3rd xboxlive boyfriend in 6 months. she had actualy been cybering with #2 the week before she ran away with #3.... I would have taken her back the first month and a half. after that the knowledge of all the abuse and betrayal made me consider her running away the second greatest gift she ever gave me because I was so committed I would not have left unless it reached life threatening levels. my son being the greatest.
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(After having "overcome" numerous affairs on his part) When we were driving to a romantic weekend getaway and I was riding shotgun and casually started browsing through his cellphone pics- most were of our son- he had an ABSOLUTE FIT! I told him that if he had that big of an issue with me seeing whatever it was on his phone he could pull over and I'd call a friend to come pick me up on the side of the road. A few hours later I was riding home with my friend Robin and we were singing along to Beyonce's "To the Left, to the Left. Everything you own in a box to the left...." For some reason, it just finally clicked that he was never going to change and I deserved better:) Pssstttt- yes, he was cheating on me AGAIN.
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When the bith bit a chunk off my ear.......for doing a job for HER mother! Was not the first time she had been violent. Now very happy on my own. DONT STAND FOR DOMESTIC VIOLENCE. If your wife or husband, or g/f or b/f even raises a hand to you in a non playful way, WALK AWAY, and NEVER go back!
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the final FINAL straw was him recieving a settlement for a car wreck he had been involved in and telling me that he only got a couple of thousand. Then I found a reciept for a HARLEY for $15,000 in his car. Turns out he bought it and hid it at his aunts house out of town!!!
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She disappeared for 3 days.
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My 37 year old ex's blatant sexual infidelity with my cousin's 16 year old son. I told her to pack up her things and leave that very same night.
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When I realised that as drove up, my heart sank if his car was in the driveway. Not fear, never that, just a feeling of utter hopelessness. Not how I wanted to live my life.This after 29 tears!!.
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When he ask for a divorce so he could marry his girlfriend.. :(
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He spent Christmas with his female "friend" and completely ditched me and my family. I kicked him out on Christmas night.
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Which one it was a batch all at the same time.
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Realizing the damage being done to my kids. Neither of my boys, 5 and 1 at the time, wanted their dad anywhere around me. They saw much more than I thought. I would have stayed and either died or killed him if not for them. I couldn't look into their little faces and see the worry they had for me any more. DONE.
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When he chose drink and drugs over his children. There was no coming back from that one.
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When she used my personal information to get credit cards in my name and max them out.
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When he cheated on me with his ex girlfriend at his job.
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