Do you believe that love is a choice or uncontrolable? Can you control who you fall in love with?
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SexyLips
ANSWERS: 9
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You may not be able to control who you fall in love with,but you can control what actions you take with those feelings.Self control.If it is appropriate and reciprocated,then go for it.If it isn't,self control.*+++++*
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love i beieve is not a choice as i would choose to be in lobe but imm not lol love finds u and u can supress it or accept when the rarity occurs
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Love in the romantic sense is lots of hormones and biology. Who you are with is always a choice.
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I believe you can love anyone you want and it is a choice. just a rather difficult one
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You can't control who you fall in love with. It's something that happens at the basic, chemical level in the body based on what your body thinks is the best match for you. You don't have to listen though. Just because you think you love someone does not mean you have to let that rule your life.
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You certainly can control everything you choose to do, love included. It's best that way instead of being an imagined victim of circumstances. Don't buy into that myth.
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I use to think it was a choice...but not any longer...I fell in love with someone that I couldn't believe I fell in love with...while it was happening..I still couldn't believe it. He is the total opposite of what I found attractive, and he is quite a bit older than me...but I KNOW this time around it's real. I'm still not sure what it was about him...I can't pin point it down...but I know I love this man like I have never loved another. People do a double take when they pass us...we look like an odd couple..but we match in so many ways! We spend every moment we can together and we never have fought in almost 3 years. I have spent 7 months 24/7 with him and loved every minute of it. Maybe believing for so many years that it was a choice is the reason I had so many failed relationships..;)
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It is a choice, always. To believe otherwise takes away your freedom of choice and makes you slave to your own emotions.
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love is not a choice but you can control how to act out upon it.
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