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by kat tarrin-AYPWIP on March 12th, 2007
almost all guys taht i have talked to have at least one breast feeding fantisy. and leting him feed wont reduse the milk suply so i personaly see no problum with it if it waz me. but do what you think is best
by passerby on March 19th, 2007
It's not as rare as people would have you believe. There is a recognised relationship called Adult Nursing Relationship (ANR), where a man and lactating partner build a feeding routine into their daily lives. They claim it builds strong and intimate relationships, however that is for you to decide. Most men are just curious about breastmilk, partly because they love the female body and partly because it is a new, special and intimate thing. Not all relationships like this are sexual although it is more common than not. Your partner is probably simply curious. Let him suckle if you're comfortable wit the idea, he may like it, you may both like it or it may not be for either of you. I think it's important that anything to do with intimacy must be good for both of you. Christian sexual advice on the net suggests that there is nothing in the bible to make it a bad thing, I'm not sure about other religions. I think that some of the responders have misunderstood such things as perverted. It may not be to their tastes however most people (in the privacy of their own homes) do things that aren't to other peoples tastes. Enjoy each other.
by Jade on March 12th, 2007
I have heard that some guys are just curious about this. If it does not bother you...let him.
by justme32 loves the weekends on March 12th, 2007
That is weird. I would remind him that he doesnt have the ability to nurse your son. Get a breast pump and put the milk in a bottle and let him feed him that way.
by firecracr on March 18th, 2007
Yeah I do remember that. It is curiousity...by the way the breast milk tastes like warm sugar smacks milk. Very sweet!
by P. W. Pasobrio loves Marines on March 12th, 2007
Okay, I'm reading it that he wants you to nurse him and the baby? If that's the case he's having some very sever jelousy issues and you need to get him to see a councelor rigth away or you're going to have even more problems later on. Yeah, men have a fasination with breasts, but most men have an adversion to lactating breasts, belive me I know, so for him to be trying to get you to this isn't normal. And it obviously makes you uncomfortable, so no, don't let him do this.
But if what he wants is to nurse the baby offer to pump him a bottle of breast milk so he can feed the baby that way.It's what my fiancee and I did with our son. And they both found it to be an enriching experiance. And don't worry about nipple confussion, babies are very adaptive when it comes to food.
by hershey_squirter_ on March 12th, 2007
It's unusual, but I don't think it's weird. If you're comfortable letting him then I don't see a problem, but if it's a problem for you then my advice is to talk to him and tell him how you feel.
by LuckyLefty on March 12th, 2007
He needs therapy.
by nevets - badgicide on March 12th, 2007
It isn't weird.
Why not let him help take care of his son?
EDIT
Does "nurse" = breast-feed?
If it does, I don't understand.
Clearly he is ill equipped to breast-feed his child.
Please can you clarify?
EDIT
cancer: i think i misstated my question. my husband wants to nurse off of me. he does not want to nurse my baby even though it would be nice at 3 in the morning.
nevets: Ah... well - that is a little odd - but if you are comfortable with it why not let him? (I am guessing that it could be a fetish of some kind.) I am not sure how far he (and you) might want to take it. Ask him if he wants to be treated like a baby.
You should do what you are comfortable with. It is not so rare though: "Damn, I wanna try that too! I heard that breast milk doesn't taste good though." http://tinyurl.com/yvxvdc
by JohnnyBoy on May 19th, 2008
i'm madly in love with my girlfriend and someday I'd like to start a family with her. and i admit that i would be interested in feeding from her breast for three reasons.
1. I want to build a new bond between us
2. Women sometimes are overly full & need loving relief
3. I wonder what it tastes like
by Sheriff Raff -Answerhag on March 18th, 2007
Either way this is fine. If he wants to suckle on your breasts and get some milk or if he wants you to pump milk so he can put it in a device that simulates a breast so he can have the baby close to him. Tigueron knows all about male breast feeding with this device, he has done it, maybe he will respond.
by Anonymous on May 29th, 2008
I thought it was weird at first, but I let my husband nurse. We developed a wonderful sexual relationship around it. I think your relationship grows stronger from the nursing as well.
My chil is now two years old, I weaned him off of the breast milk, but I still lactate. I didn't want my husaband to stop nursing.
by Tate on June 17th, 2011
I think you should allow him to do whatever he desires. Our bodies are a wonderland. Let him enjoy the wife of his youth. There is absolutely nothing wrong with his request.
by babyaubie20 on January 25th, 2009
let him do it if he wants to do it
by teddypickles on December 25th, 2008
I weaned my baby four years agok but my wonderful 6'2" husband. a college professor, nurses from each breast every evening. Sometimes on the weekends, he will nurse each breast twice. We find it a sensual thing. He grew up in Europe and was breastfed until he was five. Maybe that has something to do with it. We find it a rather sensual thing - in fact, I usually orgasm when he breastfeeds. I guess the hormones are racing all around - and it is a win, win situation
by teddypickles on December 25th, 2008
I weaned my baby four years ago, but my 6'2' husband nurses from each breast every evening. We both find it a very sensual thing. He grew up in Europe and was breastfed until he was five. I am carrying around these very large, milk filled breasts - but we both enjoy it very much, in fact, it usually brings me to orgasm - a win, win situation
by Queen Bee on October 21st, 2008
I allowed my husband to do this after the births of our sons.
It was a truly intimate experience that brought us more clsely together as a couple. It was also very relaxing for me, and helped my milk supply increase dramatically.
There is nothing "perverse" about this. My husband did not partake in this for fetish purposes.
by phibins on August 27th, 2008
as a guy i would love to try some.... it depends on your relationship, will it be to wierd... or maybe a turn on.
i dont see a problem... but i am a guy... i think you need good old girl advice on this one.
by KagomeShuko on March 19th, 2007
If he enjoys it and you enjoy it, there is nothing wrong with it.
As for the people who are talking about males not being able to breastfeed children, science has found that males can produce breast milk.
by Miss on March 19th, 2007
It's not weird. Let him do it!
by Psycho the kid on March 12th, 2007
Before pacifiers, tribal men would "pacify" babies by letting holding them up to their nipples, then to nurse, they would be given back to the mothers. It's kinda weird in this day and age, but not unprecedented.
by DownOnMyLuck on March 12th, 2007
Your husband wants to breastfeed? Is that possible? Good gracious. Personally, you should stick to nursing; what if your child found later on in life? That would scar me for life! Women have breasts for a few reasons, lol, but the main one is to nurse their children! Don't get me wrong, your husband probably has veru nice breasts, but all in all, you should stick to it! It is great he is committed to your child though!
by jampa59a on July 31st, 2011
I nursed on my wifes with each of our children. I can tell you it tastes amazing and i actually felt better and had more energy. with our 2nd and 3rd child i nursed on her sometimes as much as once a day. she didnt mind and produced more than enough.
with our 3rd child when she was ending breastfeeding our daugh she let a friend of ours try it too....he really enjoyed it also.
by superfreak on June 25th, 2010
i dont see why not, should be fun for both of you guys
by surfers59 on June 2nd, 2010
There is nothing wrong in that, if a man wants to suck milk from his wife's tits it is very healthy. Research has shown that human milk is good in protecting cancer and so many other medical conditions. Above all more your milk is consumed more it is produced. It is law of nature and in my view lactating women should not be shy in letting their milk used by other men as well
by Rabbit on August 27th, 2008
The only thing that bothers me about that is having my baby's dinner become a sexual object. If you can separate the two, go for it. I don't see anything wrong with it.
by Still breathing on May 20th, 2008
Depends on what your comfort level is, but I would have no problem with that.
My ex did when we were in bed and it was very arousing. My current husband didn't.
You don't see your kids in the same eyes as you do your S/O so for me it wasn't weird at all.
by zazzy_one on May 20th, 2008
There is nothing to worry about. I think it is like any other sexual thing: you are either into it or it turns your off. If you are okay with it: IT IS OKAY. If...as seems to be the case...it freaks you, then don't do it. It's like anal sex. If you don't like it/ it's not
for you, then don't do it.
by haggis on May 20th, 2008
i think its a natural curiosity and i personally wouldn't mind. i probably wouldn't call it nursing though.
by john pennington on May 20th, 2008
Great big question of the day.............
How old is your son????
by Anonymous on January 6th, 2008
men often want to nurse on their wifes milky breasts, to them it is also a type of bond.. also it is advantageous for the woman who can train her husband to keep the milk levels even between the breasts and to promote breast health by nursing evenly on each nipple.. It allows a more balanced approach on milk production and will keep the woman pain free due to fullness or nipple use problems. The man will have to watch his weight gain as the milk is quire rich and high in sustenance.
by Kelley on December 24th, 2007
Most men fantasize about breasts and most would like to try it. Apparently it's a common question asked of Doctors. Some men are afraid to drink the milk tho because it's seen as babyfood.
Your husband will get all the same benfits from your milk as baby and the emotional support between you. It's not illegal or harmful in any way.
When you think about it which is better, human milk for humans or animal milk?
Enjoy yourselves!
by Cancer2 on November 25th, 2007
DON'T go to a counselor. There is no need. Your husband is not "weird" or "abnormal." There is nothing wrong with it if you are both comfortable. Once he does it, you may become more comfortable with it too. My husband did this & now we both miss it. Enjoy it while you can.
by Kelley on September 21st, 2007
There are many couples who nurse, theres a whole yahoo group dedicated to it. SNCList
It's really good for your health and fun too, and it's free.
by George on May 31st, 2007
It's quite normal,
many men try it and some couples even keep going after the baby stops.
It's good for both of you emotionally and physically
Have fun!
by freya_4 on March 21st, 2007
maybe you shouldn't call it "nursing" when you're referring to your husband 'suckling' you breast/nipple in a sexual manner. Nursing is feeding - it sounds offensive and weird in the context you've used the term. Otherwise, there's nothing wrong with letting hubby have a little fun, you might enjoy it and it's not something he'll be able to do forever. I let him, but sometimes it was a little wierd when my husband did it, but only because I associated my breasts with the baby at the time and thinking of the baby while you're trying to have sex can be a bit of a buzz kill!
by Talimze on March 12th, 2007
They do make little devices so that a father can "nurse" babies. But it's for times when the mother is not around to do it. It's not intended to be used on men who want to nurse. I always say people should do whatever they want and I don't like to judge, but that is a little strange.
by beenaroundtheblock on March 12th, 2007
Since he CAN'T nurse, what he really wants is for his child to suck his nipples. If it's giving him physical pleasure, and doing nothing for the child, then it borders of sexual for me and totally inappropriate.
Would you let him place the child naked around his genitals so that he could pretend he was giving birth?
The guy sounds very messed up to me. In China, the Last Emperor apparently breastfed till he was around 13. It's not our norm, and if I was to have my 13 yr old son sucking on my breasts, it would be inappropriate.
I agree with the answer that asked, what if the kid found out later? And why would you let your husband do something that could so disgust your child and make him feel shame later?
Don't let this man talk you into this. Does he sneak and let the baby suck his nipples when you aren't around? Does he gget erections if his nipples are stimulated during foreplay?
by mysterio1979 on December 12th, 2011
I am in Los Angeles. I'm looking for a large breasted Hispanic or Exotic(asian etc) woman who is either lactating or is dead set on wanting to try. truthfully, arge breasted isnt completely necessary, but it's certainly more conducive for this... and ultra sensitive to the point they almost control your thoughts is a must. As long as you have nigt big nipples(thick.. and sizable) for me to choke on ;) JK I'm a very good suckler. I'm white, Not to sound conceited because I'm not but I was blessed with good looks, I'm funny intelligent and good company and want something lasting. Oh and most of all... I'm freaking NORMAL, which is more than I can say for about 95% of the idiots searching for this. No offense. Please be very attractive, not chubby or fat, and if you have hips and an ass thats a plus too. Also I am only looking or women who are super feminine, and womanly. Nurturing and affectionate and someone who is inherently sensual and know how to keep a man with a potent and highly sophisticated sex drive stimulated please do not contact me if you are looking for money or if you're som professional. Try reading my post before responding. I'm not a degenerate. Thanks mysteriojonz@gmail.com
by casspandra on May 20th, 2008
have you tasted that "milk"? let him have a taste its not a delicious as you might think.
Maybe then he wont even want it :)
by Weylon on June 17th, 2011
Make sure the baby gets full first!
by art loves the gals on June 24th, 2010
I didn't know it was possible. Love, art
by Galeanda on May 20th, 2008
If you are asking this it must be because you are feeling a little uncomfortable about it and that is all that matters really, how you feel. Have you talked it over with him? Why does he want to do this? Is he in competition with the child? Maybe feeling left out? Or is he just having a fantasy? If you find out his reasons, it may make you feel better about it, or it just may be something you don't want to do. It's your body and I feel if it doesn't work for you, tell him so gently and hopefully that will end it.
by TomNurser on August 23rd, 2010
Hmmm if men would be given the oportunity more to nurse or be nurtured in a way from their partner's breast, I would agree that it would create a new type of bond...well, given both people are conforming to its nurturing side of things, and not having any sexual feelings or thoughts produced from it...in other words, two people need to be very mature about this and put genuine effort into it where by both people feel comforted and get a sense of relief knowing what they are providing for the other person. My experience started back when I met my wife in high school & she slowly started encouraging me to just gently suckle/nurse from her breast whereby we weren't engaging in any sexual activity, and so we would just allow ourselves to relax and feel comforted in each others arms...even loved going down to the creek with a blanket on a fall day with all of the leaves changing, and just lay back with such subtle grace and lower her top while caressing the back of my head...but although we decided to stop doing this when she started breast feeding our 2 kids, we have continued to keep that bond strong over the years where she said that she feels a sense of care or kindness through having me suckle on her breasts and she can relax her thoughts and even on some days when her stress from the kids and work are really getting to her. Guys please don't laugh or makes jokes about this...I seriously thought it was really stupid too until after having some very one-on-one and heart-to-heart conversations with my wife and after having tried this for her, my preconceived notions/thoughts were overwhelmed and changed once I saw how much stress, frustration, anxiety, etc she was able to relieve just from something so simple as suckling and/or while gentle pressing or caressing her breasts. Well enough said here...men, I'll let you give things a sincere effort and then decide for yourselves :o)
by Jeannie28 on October 27th, 2010
WOW THIS JUST MADE ME SICK TO MY STOMACH JUST READING THIS.WTF AS A MOTHER OF 2 BOYS I WOULD NOT LET NO ONE NURSE FROM MY BREAST EXCEPT MY KIDS THATS JUST PLAIN SICK AND DISGUSTING. IF MY HUSBAND WERE TO ASK ME I WOULD SLAP HIM, TELL HIM TO GO SUCK ON HIS MOMS TITIS AND GET HIM HELP.WHAT IS THE WORLD COMING, THERE IS SOMETHING WRONG WITH THIS I THINK YOUR MAN IS FANTACISING ABOUT F**KING HIS MOM SICK BASTARDS.GET HELP ASAP. THAT IS SOMETHING BETWEEN MOTHER AND CHILD, AND THATS WHY GOD MADE WOMAN BODIES TO PRODUCE MILK WHEN YOU HAVE A BABY NOT FOR A GROWN ASS MAN.
by susiebrinks on March 1st, 2009
i HIGHLY recommend that you nurse your husband also. your body will make enough milk for both if your husband starts out slowly. i think you will be surprised by the bliss that you will feel knowing that you are nourishing and relaxing your husband. he will worship you for giving him this gift. i have been doing it for years...just my husband. we have no children. a i have a happier and healthier marriage than anyone i know. i believe one important trick tho, is to make sure your children never have an inkling of this.
by Gone. on July 8th, 2009
I did it with all my children. My wife didn't fine it weird at all. It gave her a break when the child just wanted to be comforted and not fed. Before you say anything, yes I did feed them too via a bottle. And that tasted good too LMAO
by - MojoThunder - on July 30th, 2009
it's been a couple of years now ... are you still breastfeeding???
by Anonymous on July 4th, 2009
If you are comfortable with it; then I say go for it. I had an adult nursing relationship with my wife each of the 3 times we had a child. We enjoyed the time we had together while she was lactating. The concept seems weird at first but once both partners are fully relaxed it can become to be something that both partners find intimate and a stronger bond is formed.
by RC loves ice cream on March 11th, 2009
Just make it clear that your son gets his fill first. Other than that, it's perfectly ok.
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Comments
thank you for your answer. i let him nurse on me and he lies it so much he wants to do it all the time now. he said it makes him feel closer to me. at first it made me uncomfortable but i am getting use to it. i just wonder if i am replacing his mom in some aspect.
by cancer on June 2nd, 2007
its possable but that is something that you and your husband sgould talk about
by kat tarrin-AYPWIP on July 3rd, 2007
My husband loves it too.
doesn't seem to be a problem as I make plenty for both and it's real intimate!
by Kelley on January 24th, 2008
well im glade you got it all figgured out
by kat tarrin-AYPWIP on March 7th, 2008
Is the baby more important or her man more important? That is the ultimate question she has to answer... just a suggestion, is the baby the foundation of marriage or she and her man???
by strangeman on May 6th, 2009
O! I get it now. Love, art
by art loves the gals on June 24th, 2010