What would you do if your significant other turns you down ALMOST every single time you want to get it on?
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Crystal
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sounds like you are with my future ex. I supressed my labido until it was less painful... the lack of general affection also took some reformatting, now that I am going to be single again looking for a new wife I have to untrain myself.
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i would ask why and either work it out or move it out.
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Have a good talk w/your s/o. Say something like, "It seems like every time I want to make love to you, you reject me. I can't help but be hurt by this. I can understand that you may not always be in the mood, but I need you and I want you and I need to know that you feel the same. Is there something that I can do to help us deal with this so we can both get our needs met?"
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It's called masturbation.
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well i simply told my wife she cant cut me off cause she dont know where i get it!
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I would ask why...not in an angry or accusative way but truly try to understand. My ex and I had this problem, it wasn't that I didn't want him I just got it in my head that I was not attractive and I was embarrassed and afraid of disappointing him and because I didn't share that he started thinking that I wasn't attracted to him and the problems snowballed from there. Communication is absolutely key.
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