missionary...it works VERY well for both people involved...its the most comfortable and if you really love eachother you can share that moment together...

i wouldnt say there's a "best position" it's what makes you both comfortable,being the "first" time then it should be special!!! and only you too are the ones to make it a rememberable moment!!

Very carefully, and very gently. Sex for a female isnt always comfortable the first time

humm you should go slow and gental , with her under you , and make it romantic too. candel light dinner , sappy love songs being played in the background , and a nice fire in the fireplace if you got one .

every one you can think of including strapping her legs over her head.only joking

RELAX...mentally as well as physically-in any position.

If she's a virgin, I'd try anal first.

Your head between her legs for a start. She needs to be aroused and thus lubricated, because the penetration of the vagina for the first time can be painful - anything slippery helps. I would suggest the Spoon position, because that way she can feel like she has some control over the penetration, rather than panicking because you're on top of her. You can also directly stimulate her clitoris in this position (with your fingers), whereas in the missionary position the clitoris is indirectly stimulated by the man's pubic bone.

(Your head between her legs for a start. She needs to be aroused and thus lubricated, because the penetration of the vagina for the first time can be painful -) any type of lubricant.... and missionary position.... the two of you looking each other in the eyes will get your nerves to calm quite a bit

Have her ontop to work at her pace.

her on top. partly so she doesnt feel controlled. but also i dont think the pussy is as tight in this position when i lost my Vs it was painful underneath, felt much better on top. but not sitting up! cos i felt too exposed. girl on top, leaning forward so u can kiss and do all that romantic ladida

i started out missionary. I told him that i was scared. So he took it easy on me. He told me he would warm me up first and let me deside if i wanted me. U need to have good communication with your partner. This will help you to loosen up and not be so tense. You want your first time to be pleasure and fun. Once u start and get into it u will no ur limit and the man needs to respect that. Sex is fun and should be enjoyed.

When I had my first sexual experience, the guy was on top, in the missionary. He was really patient and stopped at the first sign of discomfort, but I'm not sure if that is the best for everyone. If the guy is patient and willing to take his time, then maybe. Otherwise, I would say having the girl on top would allow her to do it at her own pace.

I'd have to say missionary with the guy on top!

Doggy she'll cum back for more

Doggy she'll cum back for more

spoons, it allows her to have good penetration but still be able to move clear if she gets uncomfortable as well as not having to worry about the guy grunting and heaving on top of her or trying to cope with rising and falling if she is on top.... also possibly less embarrasing as she won't have the guy looking directly int her face and she can compose herself.... well that's what I think as a guy - probably got it all wrong ... ho hum!!

jus be gentle and slow and bear in mind it's the brain that controls everything, mentally and phisically.if you make no rush and show respect, who's on top is no problem. DON'T GOBBLE.

Missionary position is the best position. Start by making her very wet and then put the head of your penis in first slowly and gently leave it there for a little bit,then advance in slowly ,very slowly. You are kinda dilating her vagina and slowly breaking the hymen. Do that until you are all the way in then go in and out slowly and gently. All this time you are holding her hands and telling her that you love her and asking her if she is ok and if it feels good. Believe me that is the best feeling both of you will have and it will be a memorable event in her life and yours too if you are virgin also. Make sure you have some towels to clean her(some traces of blood)afterwards because that will show her you love and care for her and that it wasn't just some macho goal that you wanted to accomplish. Believe me because I've had sex with two virgins. My first virgin was 14 yrs and the second was 15 yrs old. I was much older but, for that reason I was experienced enough to know what to do. I know these girls (ladies now) remember me for wonderful experience in their past. Good luck :) A.R.

Personally speaking, I think Missionary. It allows you to have that personal connection with your partner. Considering that it is the first time, being able to look into the eyes of the person you're with would seem to be a great thing. Plus, it also allows the guy to gauge how painful it is for the girl. If she is wincing in pain, he can ease up.

My exgirlfriend showed me a position that is great with a virgin. Since penetrating a virgin is usually painful for her, you have to give her the freedom to pull away if you are inserting too quickly. It will be painful if her hymen is still intact before you insert. Lubrication is the very most important key as far as the physical aspect. If she does not get wet enough on her own then you will need lubrication. Make sure you use something water based or it will get very sticky and make matters worse. While the female is laying on her back, have her raise one leg. the male now slides down so that her unraised leg is between his legs. The female can now lower her leg. it basically looks like an upside down "T". this will allow each to have plenty of eye contact and communication. Sometimes a virgin will wince if something hurts because she will be too scared to say anything in fear that she will hurt the guys feelings. The male can also stimulate her breasts or clitoris if it excites her in this position. this position takes all the weight of the man off the female but still keeps the stimulation of the missionary position.

Missionary. First start off with your head between her legs to get her warmed up. You have to be face to face for that intimate moment. Use lube and rub your head on her clitoris before penetrating. Ease in to her and tell her you love her. Then go to town! Flip her over and throw her around. Try anything, try anal, just get that nut!

good point drDrew. if that doesn't work, try doing a dude. its extreme.

Missionary, man on top. Not only for virgins. It's been my favourite position everytime for years. I find sex much more fulfilling this way.

I would suggest the the frontier position, or maybe even the rabbit position.

Well I have to guess there isn't good position to have sex with a virgin for the second time.

I had an intact hymen and was worried that having sex with a man for the first time would hurt. However, on the advice of a female friend who had previously had the same issue, over a period of several months I gradually stretched my own vaginal opening through masturbation before I ever had sex with a man. After my boyfriend and I decided that we wanted to have sex, we didn't try to have intercourse the first time that we got naked together, but rather, we gradually got more physical over a period of another several months. Because we went very gradually, the masturbation and the later sex were painless. Although the quick and painful way might have been simpler, the way we did it was well worth the time, especially because of the care and intimacy that we developed in the process. A woman can do the following either alone and/or with her partner. The two partners need to have a caring, trusting relationship established in order to do this. Ladies, someone who truly loves you will have the patience to go slowly with you if that is what you want. Try foreplay for a few months, gradually working up to the point where her hymen has been stretched enough that she can have intercourse without pain. Start with lots of talking, kissing, hugging, fondling, a full body massage, a bubble bath, or what ever makes you both feel cared about and turned on. The first few times, just finger the outside of the woman's genital area. Stop as soon she asks you to, and wait until next time to get more physical. After, she's comfortable with this first step, try putting the very tip of your little finger a little bit inside her <a href="http://www.livestrong.com/article/12495-the-vagina/" title="vagina" style="", class="stronglinks" target="_blank" />vagina</a> (and be sure your fingernails are clipped short and filed smooth). Do this when she is secreting lots of her natural lubricant, and also add an additional store bought lubricant. Go only as far as she is able to go without discomfort. If this is uncomfortable for her, stop and wait until next time. If she is not feeling any pain or discomfort, ask her if you can put your little finger further into her vagina. Most women have small holes in their hymens, so you can put a finger through one of the holes, and gradually (over months) stretch the hole until it becomes larger. If comfortable for the woman, leave the finger there for half an hour or more, in order to stretch the hymen and vaginal walls. Do this on several different occasions. After she's comfortable with the steps above, try your index or middle finger, using the same gradual process. After a few months, she might be comfortable having two fingers inside her vagina at once. A little bit later, try an object, such as a small dildo. You can work up to larger dildos. Always stop as soon as she gets uncomfortable. After she can go this far without any pain, put the very tip of your penis inside the opening of her vagina, without any thrusting. As the weeks or months go by, she may gradually become more comfortable allowing you to put your penis deeper into her vagina, still without any thrusting. Remember to use lots of lubricant, and only do this when she is aroused. Keep the lines of communication open throughout the whole process. Repeat this until she is comfortable having your penis completely inside her vagina. When she's ready, start with some very slow, gentle thrusting. She may want to be on top, so that she can control the pace and depth of the thrusting. The two of you can go faster and deeper as this becomes comfortable. Have patience, and adjust this advice to what feels right for the two of you.

Rough, angry anal

The male sitting up (prefrably on a bed) and the female kneeling on top of his lap. This way they will face each other directly face to face and she can go at her own pace and there is also there is the ability to stimulate the citerus while engaginging in sex

i have to say the missionary position. i haved sex twice, my first time was when i was 15 and my guy almost stopped because he said he saw a lot of pain in my face but i told him to keep going becaus i wanted that moment to last forever the second time was easier because i didnt feel any of the pain i did the frist time but the millitary position was great for me because i got to see my lovers face and the feeling he had for me were written all over it!