Is possible for 38 yr old father 2 give up need4younger women's attention/flirting? He's never married, hurt badly in past unable 2 trust/wants to fall inlove again. Said he loves me/misses that attention/doesnt want 2 hurt me dtg 9 mos/lvg 2 mos
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So, you've been dating for nine months and living together for two months. Correct? And the guy seems to have a great need for female attention outside of the attention that you give him? Gee, and how does that make you feel? Rotten, I'll bet. Do you want someone who's focus is just you? Well, it's not going to happen with this guy. If your trying to change him it won't work. And you could waste your life hoping against hope that somethings going to change. It doesn't sound like it's going to. Cut your losses and move on. You deserve better.
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I reckon laaayla's answer is just about right. You've only been with this guy for 9 months and already he's flirting and needing the attention of younger women. Usually in the early days of a romance two people only have eyes for each other - their whole focus is on one other person. Well if he's like that now what will he be like in a few years time when you're used to each other and the novelty has worn off? And hey, we've all been hurt in the past - he's just using it as an excuse. One other thing (sorry I'm on a roll here lol) remember that old saying actions speak louder than words. Saying I love you, miss you, wanna be with you is easy but what is he actually doing to prove that to you? Making excuses about being unable to trust etc. Good luck to you Girlie, I really mean that. When you find the right guy he'll want to be with you every minute of the day and at some point be talking about commitment. You won't look back :)
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