If you are a parent and you found out your daughter was fingering herself what do you tell her?
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bilingue
ANSWERS: 40
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Nothing. I'd be a good parent and RESPECT HER PRIVACY, and never let her know I "found out." +5
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That its normal, but only to do it in privacy.
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i think a few days down the road, have a talk about how this is a normal thing to do in private.
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That masterbation is a normal part of sexuality... Just make sure she washes her damn hands first!
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Nothing, as long as she wasn't doing it in public. If she did, I'd take her aside and tell her that while there's nothing wrong pleasuring herself in private, some things are inappropriate if done in public.
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Close my eyes, put my fingers in my ears and scream LA LA LA LA LA LA LA LA!!
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How did I find out? Did she tell me? Did I walk in on her? The exact reaction would be different depending on circumstances but I would make sure to include the fact that it's normal to play with herself and possibly caution her about sticking foreign objects up there.
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Depends on her age. If she's four, then you've got a BIG problem!
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If she's doing it in private, say nothing unless she asks about it, then give her reassurance that it's not dirty or wrong. If she's doing it at inappropriate times and not privatly explain to her that privates are private and if she wants to do that it needs to be in private. That's the phrase I am using to begin explaining to my daughter that her privates are not to be touched my anyone other than herself.
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I'm assuming I walked in on her bedroom or bathroom while whe did this, in that case I would excuse myself and appologize for barging in. Any thing I say after that, would olny be embarrasing for her. It's a natural thing, and wouldn't want her to feel embarrassed.
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It depends... If she's doing it in the kitchen, on the bus or whatever - I'd strongly suggest a mpre private place. If it was in her bedroom or bath, I'd suggest she close the door. However, it IS polite to knock... so I am a bit curious about the circumstances in which "I" found her out... +5
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Well if she was under the age of 15 i would have her mom talk to her.Im a dad, and theres no way i could talk to my daughter about that. thats moms turf. but if she is on her way in her teen years, let it go.
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get your hand out of your pants and close the door stop peeking in on her or do ya want her to find some boy to do it for her
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"safest kind of sex, by the way, everyone does it"
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I have three teenage boys. My wife and I purchase two bottles of hair conditioner a week... As everyone else has said, as long as it's in private... who cares!?
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Nothing. It's pretty natural. I would only offer my advice, knowledge or whatever if she came to ask me about it.
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"I'll come back later."
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Well if she hasn't spotted me, I'd probably get back out. Otherwise, I'd say "remember to wash your hands before doing that honey".
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dont do anything let her be
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nothing . it's her vagina and her finger . leave it be . it's not hurting anyone ... hopefully .
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If she's really young it might be a signal that someone is abusing her; I'd make sure I knew who she'd been around recently.
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At most you tell her to make sure her hands are clean, otherwise nothing.
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It's a completely normal part of growing up. I'd just tell her though that you can only do this in private places (not public) hence the name! and to be careful not to tell any of her friends etc, as boys could be after her- try to use her.
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I'd make sure she understood that A) it is a private matter, not to be done in public or around others, and B) to make sure her hands are clean prior to the task. I would also make sure she didn't feel any shame about her body. +5
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Nothing. Just. . . Nothing. None of my bussines. And it's better than her having sex.
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Oh, I didn't know you were busy.
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I wouldn't intrude, but it is probably time for some kind of sex education talk.
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I would do nothing! Let her have privacy
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i wouldn't say anything to her. that is her business & not mine.
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keep going
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As long as she was not using a frozen fish or a live gerbil, who cares? Unless she is doing it at the dinner table or in front of people. Then I'd tell her to take it to her room and shut the door.
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Tell her that Jesus watches her touch herself and it makes Him cry.
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tell her to wash her hands before she touches any hing n have her go find a man
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You have no business knowing whether she is or not. Get yourself some help.
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i have walk in on my daughter and she has been finger her self i walk out and say sorry there is nothing wrong waht she is doing as long as she doing it in private
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Door locks serve a purpose.
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nothing. because nothing needs to be said. it would just be awkward and unnecessary.
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Well my mom knew me and my sister masturbated and they where find with it as long as we did it in private. If I ever have a daughter or son I would do the same.
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If it got out of hand and loud when I am trying to sleep tell her to go somewhere or turn on some music. But other wise I wouldn't bring it up.
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respect her shes growing up its going to happen everyone does it
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