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by Anonymous on July 15th, 2009
Nothing.
I'd be a good parent and RESPECT HER PRIVACY, and never let her know I "found out."
+5
by lonelydragon on July 16th, 2009
Nothing, as long as she wasn't doing it in public. If she did, I'd take her aside and tell her that while there's nothing wrong pleasuring herself in private, some things are inappropriate if done in public.
by Go know thyself is THE RED QUEEN on July 15th, 2009
That masterbation is a normal part of sexuality...
Just make sure she washes her damn hands first!
by 23Skidoo on July 17th, 2009
It depends...
If she's doing it in the kitchen, on the bus or whatever - I'd strongly suggest a mpre private place.
If it was in her bedroom or bath, I'd suggest she close the door.
However, it IS polite to knock... so I am a bit curious about the circumstances in which "I" found her out...
+5
by R U Sirius on July 16th, 2009
Close my eyes, put my fingers in my ears and scream LA LA LA LA LA LA LA LA!!
by Phillis - Zacks little sister on October 10th, 2009
I'd make sure she understood that A) it is a private matter, not to be done in public or around others, and B) to make sure her hands are clean prior to the task.
I would also make sure she didn't feel any shame about her body. +5
by mweaver on August 15th, 2009
"I'll come back later."
by Melissa on July 16th, 2009
If she's doing it in private, say nothing unless she asks about it, then give her reassurance that it's not dirty or wrong. If she's doing it at inappropriate times and not privatly explain to her that privates are private and if she wants to do that it needs to be in private. That's the phrase I am using to begin explaining to my daughter that her privates are not to be touched my anyone other than herself.
by lialuffgames on August 26th, 2009
nothing .
it's her vagina and her finger . leave it be .
it's not hurting anyone ... hopefully .
by raindancer on July 16th, 2009
How did I find out? Did she tell me? Did I walk in on her? The exact reaction would be different depending on circumstances but I would make sure to include the fact that it's normal to play with herself and possibly caution her about sticking foreign objects up there.
by -Icy- on July 15th, 2009
i think a few days down the road, have a talk about how this is a normal thing to do in private.
by marymel on July 15th, 2009
That its normal, but only to do it in privacy.
by AnonJerry on October 10th, 2009
keep going
by itwasalllikebam on October 10th, 2009
Nothing. Just. . . Nothing. None of my bussines. And it's better than her having sex.
by Melza. on October 10th, 2009
It's a completely normal part of growing up.
I'd just tell her though that you can only do this in private places (not public) hence the name! and to be careful not to tell any of her friends etc, as boys could be after her- try to use her.
by jbrecken on August 26th, 2009
If she's really young it might be a signal that someone is abusing her; I'd make sure I knew who she'd been around recently.
by RC loves ice cream on August 15th, 2009
Well if she hasn't spotted me, I'd probably get back out. Otherwise, I'd say "remember to wash your hands before doing that honey".
by Symbeline on August 15th, 2009
Nothing. It's pretty natural.
I would only offer my advice, knowledge or whatever if she came to ask me about it.
by Gonforgood on August 15th, 2009
I have three teenage boys. My wife and I purchase two bottles of hair conditioner a week...
As everyone else has said, as long as it's in private... who cares!?
by Wind in the Willow on October 23rd, 2009
You have no business knowing whether she is or not. Get yourself some help.
by taylor on October 23rd, 2009
tell her to wash her hands before she touches any hing n have her go find a man
by Keysha on October 10th, 2009
As long as she was not using a frozen fish or a live gerbil, who cares?
Unless she is doing it at the dinner table or in front of people. Then I'd tell her to take it to her room and shut the door.
by shrinkess on October 10th, 2009
I wouldn't intrude, but it is probably time for some kind of sex education talk.
by Thriftymaid on October 10th, 2009
Oh, I didn't know you were busy.
by 08Busa on August 31st, 2009
At most you tell her to make sure her hands are clean, otherwise nothing.
by Anonymous on August 22nd, 2009
dont do anything let her be
by Jane on August 15th, 2009
"safest kind of sex, by the way, everyone does it"
by thebigbopper on August 15th, 2009
get your hand out of your pants and close the door stop peeking in on her or do ya want her to find some boy to do it for her
by Anonymous on July 31st, 2009
Well if she was under the age of 15 i would have her mom talk to her.Im a dad, and theres no way i could talk to my daughter about that. thats moms turf. but if she is on her way in her teen years, let it go.
by Glitch on July 17th, 2009
I'm assuming I walked in on her bedroom or bathroom while whe did this, in that case I would excuse myself and appologize for barging in. Any thing I say after that, would olny be embarrasing for her. It's a natural thing, and wouldn't want her to feel embarrassed.
by dekrue on July 16th, 2009
Depends on her age. If she's four, then you've got a BIG problem!
by Grant aka Guybrush Threepwood on October 10th, 2009
i wouldn't say anything to her. that is her business & not mine.
by Ray Del Sol on October 10th, 2009
I would do nothing! Let her have privacy
by Nutsy_Rail on October 10th, 2009
Tell her that Jesus watches her touch herself and it makes Him cry.
by lover boy on October 23rd, 2009
i have walk in on my daughter and she has been finger her self i walk out and say sorry there is nothing wrong waht she is doing as long as she doing it in private
by bigmac on October 25th, 2009
respect her shes growing up its going to happen everyone does it
by Scarlet Night on October 25th, 2009
If it got out of hand and loud when I am trying to sleep tell her to go somewhere or turn on some music. But other wise I wouldn't bring it up.
by Anonymous on October 25th, 2009
Well my mom knew me and my sister masturbated and they where find with it as long as we did it in private. If I ever have a daughter or son I would do the same.
by aydeology on October 23rd, 2009
nothing.
because nothing needs to be said. it would just be awkward and unnecessary.
by -O-uknow on October 23rd, 2009
Door locks serve a purpose.
Is it weird for a guy to masturbate?
by Stay_Hungry_Stay_Foolish on January 20th, 2012
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Has anyone ever heard of a danger cum? If so can you tell me what it is?
by Anonymous on January 24th, 2012
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Have you ever talked with someone about masturbation and they have told you how much they love to do it? Did anything happen after tht?
by GibsonGuy on January 23rd, 2012
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Ladies, have you tried fisting?
by Pintapride on February 2nd, 2012
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Whem I'm very horny I have an overshelming desire to take a picture(s) of myself and show them to someone. But does anyone want to see?
by GibsonGuy on January 23rd, 2012
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thinks and nods
by -Icy- on July 15th, 2009
One must GIVE respect, to get it.
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That's called, "earning it."
by Anonymous on July 15th, 2009