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  • I would email him to see why he was avoiding me try to make amends if possible and if he doesn't want to know anything about me then I would try to move on and deal with it as best as I could. I guess I would have to be in that kind of situation to really know how to react.
  • I would have been pretty pissed. And questioned him why he did such a cruel thing to his child =( Although honestly, i rarely forgive. So i probably would have nothing to do with him. It's a tough situation, and there is no sure fire answer in what should be done. Follow your heart and hope he cares enough to be real NOW that the jig is up.
  • I'm sorry to hear that. How long was your dad in your life? My 2 year old sons dad wants nothing to do with him either and seeing he has no idea how amazing our son is, it shows me it's just the idea of having a child that he is trying to avoid not because my little boy is inadequate in anyway. I think the same applies to you, whatever the problem with your father is, it's his problem and has nothing to do with your character or who you are. I would maybe email him, if you feel you need to and be as nice as you can in order to give him a chance to explain and then take it from there. As Pixie said, follow your heart. All the best :)

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