Because you just said in the last question you're married to a woman and want a divorce.

Are you a good conversationalist? Is your body language inviting? What are your criteria for a man?

You need to put yourself out there more as a person, sometimes very attractive people are intimidating and seem fake, even when they are not.

Maybe there aren't alot of gay men in the area?

Because you're not out of the beauty parlours long enough to meet any.

most likely because a man is often turned off by a girl who thinks she is hot. Modesty can be as effectively attractive as physical attractiveness. Nobody likes a narcissist. Focus on making yourself a more desirable personality than an attractive piece of meat. Even though we may not seem like it, men like a well rounded women than doesn't take herself too seriously.

Maybe they think you are shallow or high maintanence since you obviously know you're hot???

Those are all material things. That just screams "high maintanence". Do you have to have those things? Do those things have to matter to a man? Not all men care about your nails... how nice your cloths are. Men pay more attention to attitude believe it or not. If your attitude sucks it doesn't matter how pretty you are physically.

You probably have to make yourself more approachable. Guys can be pretty shallow, but we're not just interested in physical traits. If you sell yourself purely on looks, you'll most likely draw in the players looking for some short term fun. Unless you're looking for that, you might what to present yourself differently. And fyi, guys don't care about designer boots and bags, and rarely notice the difference between good and perfect toe and finger nails. People can draw alot about your personality from what you wear. If you're walking around in Gucci sunglasses, Prada handbags and Fendi boots, most guys would probably be turned off.

I'm assuming this is a goof since you were asking about getting a divorce from your wife a little while ago;)

You're whole question explains that. Plus, I know a lot of women who think they're hot, or "wear nice boots" just because magazines and the media and models wear something, doesn't mean guys like it. Like those pointy boots chicks wear or skinny pants? Can't stand it.

Maybe you pay way to much attention to yourself and your appearance? Just a thought... Maybe you should take care of yourself but more more aware of others?

Because you can't spell "blonde?"

You want men to want you because you make these efforts? You should maybe concentrate on what about your personality should or would attract a man. They aren't a league of casting agents they are individuals who each like and look for different things.

You'll be fine. Be patient. The right guy will come around. You're just looking in all the wrong places.

Attitude is everything. Maybe you think so much of yourself there is no room for anyone else. The "I'm all that and a bag of chips" syndrome. Try downplaying the "stuff" a little. Unless a guy is Mr. Trendy himself he's not going to be okay with someone who looks like they just walked out of a fashion magazine. And a guy may wonder if they can afford your lifestyle.

Because you're bonde, that's why

Maybe you're trying TOO hard. Your obsession with your appearance speaks volumes.

Maybe you are too image conscious.

Sounds to me like you fit the perfect description of "bitch". Maybe that has a little to do about it?!

Reminder to Zack:Stay away from women like this.

First, men might be to intimidated by you. Or they might just think that a hot chick like you is probably already taken. Or they might think that you are high maintenance. Or it might be your personality. Or it might be the crowd you hang out with. Or it could be your mannerisms. Or it could be something else!

because you can't spell? perhaps you try too hard? maybe your SOOOOOOOOOOOO hot that men are afraid to approach you? maybe you're so shallow that no one can stand you? MAYBE you think too much or not enough? sounds like you put an awful lot of effort into yourself and get no payoff. actually, it sounds like (because you're so sure you're hot) men must flock to you like crazy, but because you're "picky" (as in the dollars in the wallet or the car he drives picky) you're just not quite getting what you want. i'm sorry to have to tell you this love, but that means you're just not as hot as you thought. tough luck deary.

lets see a picture of you

Well you sound attractive to me. In time, hun I'm certain something will come up just dont worry about it and let it come to you.

it sounds like you definitely make a good effort with your appearance, but now think about the inside? you can't really think that these qualities alone will help you find a guy... you sound kind of cocky haha maybe the boys don't want to waste their time if you think you're too good for them... just a thought!

You sound like the sort of BDSM types that momma said to be careful of. Save that kind of advertisement for AFTER you've found Mr Kink.

unless you are just wanting to be a booty call, apearance is nowhere near everything. hint... guys do not give a crap about your boots or your bag and you can keep your skin soft without shelling out hundreds of dollars per month. while most men would like their wife to be hot enough to be a trophy, very few want high cost maintenence. honestly I am almost as unatracted to women with gucci as I am to women who swear alot.

Those traits could mean a few things, two popping into my mind are: old-fashioned courtship type, or high-maintenance princess type. Few women nowadays are the prior, many are the latter. Maybe try to emphasize your personality rather than having a detailed accounting of your physical maintenance qualities. Try going out to a coffeeshop with a book sometime, be a bit scruffy, your makeup and appearance don't have to be perfect. Obsession can scream insecurity!

Try modesty : )

did you ever think maybe you are just fake and guys can see through you!?

Probably because you rely on your looks and think that's all it takes to get one.

Well, maybe they are intimidated bc you seem high maintenance. My bestfriend was like that, she toned it down a bit and now everyone wants to be with her. Or maybe the fact that you think you look so hot has gone to your head and it's making you a snob. Maybe take a look at that and try to fix that.

Probably because men don't care about any of those things (I honestly don't know), or you have some other huge flaw that cancels out all of those things. Can you think of anything?

Be patient, good things will come to you its not all about the exterior of a person. You want to have it all together inside. Working on the inside and then you will really attract people. But you want the right person. Be selective. Being a hot blonde will not get you a man. A person with a genuine heart, compassion for others, a good disposition, a caring person, intelligent, kind, fun to be around. Check the inside of you and see what you need to work on. Yes, its nice to have good looks but its not all people look at. You want a person that loves you for who you are.

because you take care of yourself, people assume you are high maintenance and feel that they can not afford to keep up with what would be considered your habits. This is the problem that i have, and i have been told that i am intimidating. The fact to the matter is, all the things i do for myself to keep myself together, i will do regardless of what kind of money the person i date has, i do this stuff for me not others. I do not expect someone i am dating to pay for my upkeep, i expect them to appreciate it and if they want to contribute to the cause than fine.

Which of these items you listed do you think attract men? I'm sure they'd appreciate the shaving and waxing, if they got that close, but most guys won't much care about your boots, bag, or your manicure or pedicure. So you're tall, hot, and blond? That should attract attention. Now, try putting on a smile!

the question says it all. You rely entirely on your looks, but you dont show any personality. There are millions of well groomed women out there, what sets you apart from any of them? I also want to add, relying on your looks will attract ONLY the men who want to just use you, it wont draw the good men.

Also, it's spelled "pedicure."

It seems to me like you may be a little too high maintenance. Try focusing your attention on your inner-self as opposed to your outer-self, that way men can see you for who you actually are, and not what you have.

Ya i think guys are sorta over girls just for their looks now a days guys wind up with their soulmate based more on whether or nor they get along,share common intressts,ect. then on level of actractivness.

When's the last time you read a book? (Not including fashion/diet/trash pulp fiction, that is...)

Maybe this person IS a man...

Maybe you realized that they are all children looking for a mommy and you decided not to waste your time?

Girl, trust me. I am having the same exact problem. I'm pretty and have a wonderful sense of humor, but the only guys that want to date me are the ones that just want to get some. :(

Maybe your intimidating. Or even unapproachable, it could be either,hot women tend to be intimidating to many men, who automatically assume a hot woman= a bitch. Usually they are right though.

umm first, why are you wearing boots in the summer..second, the funny thing is is i was on a drought, gave up, gave a shit, and wouldnt you know it, i landed mr. forever, then he handed me his beard trimmer..hahaha its a very true story, and he still gives me shit..9 years later.

From the sounds of it I believe u give off the impression that ur "High Maintenance" guys tends to shy away from those types...try going out in a tank-top, jeans, pony tail and a well worn ball cap...

You're probably picky with men and only look for certain "types". Often times first impressions aren't all that reliable. Depending on what kind of men you're around, they may just look at you as a "piece of ass" rather than someone to date. In that case, maybe try making yourself look more sophisticated rather than a "hot blonde". I'm not exactly sure there is a legitimate reason, all I know is finding or getting a man isn't something that happens with the snap of your fingers, it takes time. Be patient, and it will happen before you know it.

maybe you try to hard.

Maybe it's because you're so "high maintenance". Then again: It may be "all your children (under 10) that you give alcohol to ( http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1543326 ). Maybe it's because you are "Over 40, no gf, I play video games all day, overweight & I have only online friends. ( http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1543221 ) or are you "30 & single? ( http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1540858 ) Maybe it's because you're a sexist man with a girlfriend ( http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1543198 ) or is it that " I have 2 gf's & wife wants divorce. How can I get her to pay me alimony & take the kids? (I had 3 but now only 2 gf's)" ( http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1543192 ) It COULD be because you have a 15yo daughter dating men on the internet ( http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1543172 ) Or because you let your wife hit your kids with books ( http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1543162 ) Or maybe because your son wants to dress as a Nazi for a costume party ( http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1543143 ) Or that you hate all men ( http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1543060 ) Well, that's just a few of the question that relate to why you MAY not be able to "get a man". I'll let others explore your profile for more. ;-)

You should've joined that show "Tough Love".

You need to talk to 'lone2groan' who is also an AB member. He wants to get laid, get a girl.

you spend too much time on other things rather then looking for a man.

Curious, but you didn't say.. No offence now. Are you a chick?