ANSWERS: 6
  • O my gosh I know it is so hard hunny, you just have to start thinking of yourself as you again and not yourself as a couple. It will take some time, I admit. Just realize there is a reason for everything.
  • It really does not matter if they don't love yoou anymore. The question is, do you love YOURSELF! Gurl, call a friend and go out, travel, read a book, see a movie... do anything but get bored.
  • All wounds take time to heal. When I wanted to stop thinking about things... I found a hobby. I actly started getting on here and answering questions and asking them as well. If you have friends try talking to them about things. It helps to talk about things that hurt you. Just spend time with friends or family. Talk to someone... pick up a hobby... those things all helped me. Good luck to you
  • Just realize the perfect guy for you wouldn't have let you go or ever hurt you. Then after a while it will become more apparent or just remember this..."grant me the serentity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference."
  • It will take time to get pass these feelings, but it will soon pass. It's hard to face, but if he's over you that will actually help with the process of getting over him. The facts are that you can't control someone else, only what you do. Give yourself time to have these feelings and when its time, you'll be able to move forward without regrets. The crying and thinking of him constantly will eventually fizzle. Just be good to yourself, put the focus back on you(instead of him) and gradually start doing the things you did before you met him that made you happy. Be strong.
  • It takes time and you have to start loving yourself more then you won't need to worry about that person. Everything takes time and eventually his memory will be like a blip in your life.

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