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  • if you want to see the kids move if not then hold back it will sort its self out how old are the kids too big factor in this and where aer you living. now regards les
  • Move to Texas. Lots of single women down here!
  • Move to Vermont. That should slove your problem.
  • If she's taking the kids..best go after her...
  • Make the most of the time you do get with your kids. Let them know that even if you're not there with them, they are in your thoughts daily and you will continue to love and support them no matter how far away they go. I know it's hard, but hopefully the move will help mom make a better life for them.
  • Find your self a job in Georgia and move there too. Your kids need their dad.
  • Sorry to hear that. Do you have a visitation agreement? What sort of relationship do you have with her and the kids now?
  • Move to Georgia! As you already know Houses, Jobs, Money do not mean shit if you are miserable! Your children need you just as you need them! I honestly think you would like Georgia! Good ol Southern Belles, and you know it is hot as hell down here so they do not wear much!!!! You will do what is right.
  • She can't move legally without your consent if you have joint custody
  • Congrats to her and 3 words for you: Frequent Flyer Miles
  • Sorry to hear this Payton.....I don't know what to tell you, but I feel for ya.
  • Move south, young man!
  • If you have shared parenting, she can't take the kids out of the state without your consent.
  • You need to get a lawyer. She can't take your kids to live out of state without your permission. Make sure you have all your ducks in a row ... up to date on child support, etc.
  • Sheesh P, this is sad news. I don't know how you can have joint custody and she can leave the state. IS she going to be able to afford to put them on a plane to visit you? Or is she going to bring them to you every other week? You COULD move, but it seems that you'd be agreeing with her by doing that, or in better terms, consenting to her move. You as father have rights too. What do the children want? They have rights too and everyone seems to forget that. Have you considered an agreement that might leave the kids with you during summer, her during school year? Most importantly, (to my mind) is what the kids want.... They are NOT too young to have wants and needs and those should be respected.
  • WEB CAM.
  • make sure your kids understand you love them and this isnt what you want. make sure they know they can get in contact with you and stress you will always be thinking about them, and although they are not near by you will always be in their life. this sucks!!! it seems really unfair to me but thats life. just love them and hope they will realize its not their fault and its not really your fault either.
  • contact your local child support enforcement agency as soon as possible. there is a law that if you owe child support, and move to another state, you can be arrested for fleeing child support. this applies even if your ex moves and you don't contact the enforcement agency. there have been cases of men being arrested because the ex moved, and filed a new claim, and the ex husband was arrested for fleeing. also, if you owe back child support, it is illegal for you to move without permission from the court.
  • You should know that the highest rates of denial of court ordered visitation takes place when it involves long distance visitation. You should file an Injunction to prevent the move pending a full court hearing. If you want to learn how to do all this go to Dads House in Yahoo Groups. Upon joining, you will receive a link for downloading a 200 page educational manual that can teach you what you need to know. Take the time to learn what you can and should do. Dads House http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/DadsHouse/ If the court decides to allow the move, here's what needs to be considered: Parents Who Reside Over 100 Miles Apart. Except as otherwise explicitly provided, if the non-custodial parent resides more than 100 miles from the residence of the child, the non-custodial parent shall have the right to possession of the child as follows: (1) every Spring school vacation from 6 p.m. on the day school recesses until 6 p.m. on the day before school resumes after that vacation; (2) if the non-custodial parent: (A) gives the Custodial parent written notice by May 1, of each year specifying an extended period or periods of summer possession, the non-custodial parent shall have possession of the child for 42 days between June 1 and August 31, to be extended in no more than two separate periods of at least seven consecutive days each; or (B) does not give the custodial parent written notice by May 1 of each year specifying an extended period or periods of summer possession, the non-custodial parent shall have possession of the child for 42 consecutive days beginning at 6 p.m. on June 15 and ending at 6 p.m. on July 27; (5) if the custodial parent gives the non-custodial parent written notice by May 15 of each year or gives the non-custodial parent 14 days notice on or after May 16 of each year, the custodial parent shall have possession of the child on any one weekend from Friday at 6 p.m. to 6 p.m. on the following Sunday during any one period of possession by the non-custodial parent under subdivision (4) of this subsection, provided that if a period of possession by the non-custodial parent exceeds 30 days, the custodial parent may have possession of the child under the terms of this subdivision on any two nonconsecutive weekends during that time period, and further provided that the custodial parent picks up the child from the non-custodial parent and returns the child to the same place; and (6) if the custodial parent gives the non-custodial parent written notice by May 15 of each year or gives the non-custodial parent 30 days' written notice on or after May 16 of each year, the custodial parent may designate 21 days between June 1 and August 31, to be exercised in no more than two separate periods of at least seven consecutive days each, during which the non-custodial parent shall not have possession of the child, provided that the period or periods so designated do not interfere with the non-custodial parent's period or periods of extended summer possession or with Father's Day if the non-custodial parent is the father of the child. General Terms and Conditions. (1) Where parents under this decree reside in different areas and the child(ren) must travel between parents by public transportation, the custodial parent is ordered to deliver the child(ren) at the beginning of each period of possession herein awarded to the non-custodial parent, to the appropriate transportation terminal in the custodial parent's city of residence. Further, the custodial parent is ordered to pick up the child(ren) at the termination of each period of possession herein granted to the non-custodial parent, at the appropriate transportation terminal in the custodial parent's city of residence. The non-custodial parent is hereby ordered to pick up the child(ren) at the appropriate transportation terminal in the non-custodial parent's city of residence. Further, the non-custodial parent is ordered to deliver the child(ren) at the end of each period of possession herein awarded to the non-custodial parent, to the appropriate transportation terminal in the non-custodial parent's city of residence. (2) The custodial rent shall provide a cash or secured bond to the court, forfeitable upon violation of the terms of the visitation orders. (3) The state of residency of the non-custodial parent shall retain all jurisdiction over the case, unless the non-custodial parent moves from the state. (4) Both parents shall provide the children: (a) Computer, (b) High speed internet service, © A Firewire web cam, and (d) An electronic tablet, which will be used for frequent contact between the child(ren) parent not in residence, with the ability to help with any homework.
  • Go to court.It wouldnt be fair for you not to ever see you kids.
  • you should file for Child custody, here are some articles on child custody that u should read: http://www.legalserviceindia.com/helpline/helpline_HOME.htm
  • go remarry her! in your marrige vows do u remember any thing about till death do us part. u are ment to be a family
  • Does the decree allow her to move the children to another state without your consent? If you do not know you need to go to the courthouse where the decree was finalized and get a certified copy signed by a judge and read it. If she is not allowed to move the children to another state without your consent you will need to hire a lawyer.

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