ANSWERS: 3
  • A lot of compromising on your part. Your likes, dislikes and wants will be a lot different from his. Since you separated once, try going out with guys closer to your age and see if you like them more.
  • I agree with another answerer about compromising. When I was a year older than you, I got together with a man of 41. We hare still together 10 years later, but it has been hard and I feel I have missed out on a lot. When you are the same age, you share the experiences of growing up and learning - you learn together. When you are with a much older partner, that is taken away from you. I missed it during my twenties and I still miss it. I'm not sure I'd do the same thing again. All you can do is try. If it doesn't work, it doesn't work. Don't keep trying to make something work that you are struggling with and is hard, at your age just move on.
  • Fact from fiction, truth from diction. Was it really YOU TWO who called it quits or was your mind made up by a horde of sloped brow, doltish, chuckleheaded, cretins? Even though you were apart you happen to need the itch scratched at just the right time and there was no one else available but each other? You can make it work but you have to 1st realize, as I am my fiancee did, you are in a relationship for YOU, not no nescient troglodytes. Are there issues to be addressed? Sure, that is what conversation is for. My fiancee have all sort of issues due to our generational gap. But we bring it all to the table and discuss it. Then we know where each other stands. You also have to respect each other's views, he can't see your's as somthing of a know nothing kid, and you can't see his as old fashion or dinosauric. If you have respect for each other and your views there is no reason why it can't work so long as you keep busters and trolls out of your business.

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