My best friend is also my ex. We dated for four years and I want him back, but I don't want to risk the friendship. How should I tell him?
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I don't think that revealing that you have a physical attraction is overtly dangerous to a friendship - but this is something that doesn't necessarily need to be put into words. If you want someone, all you have to do is concentrate on eye-time . . . establishing and maintaining eye contact for as long a period as possible. It really is that simple. Faint Heart ne'er won fair lady (or man.) If he says no, then shrug it off, and don't take offense (after all, after four years, he does know you pretty well, and does love you by being friends for so long)
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You should definitely let him know how you feel, but in the subtlest and most recoverable way you can. Supressed feelings eventually burst out into something overly dramatic and you wouldnt want that. I wouldnt worry about your friendship going away, you two have obviously overcame whatever you put each other through in th past.
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Be forthright and honest, of course! Tell him how you feel and hopefully, this won't change anything except for the better for you both. Good luck!
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