I would probably say. " hey I saw you at (Insert ex's name) place, how are they doing?".

I would get a camera and film her leaving...when she comes home, play it. I might venture to the door to listen in or snoop around the house to listen to what is going on inside. I would note the time and such. Then I might say "Gino said that your car was parked at [ex's name] house." IF she denies, she is up to no good. It kind matters how long she is there. More than 5 minutes is a problem.

Well ; I would get pics of them at the ex's place ... THEN; We would be BROKE UP !! I do NOT play Mickey Mouse games ...

Thank God I don't have that problem now, but I have had it before. I went freaking nuts, because I already knew he was a cheater. Stupid me! I stayed with him. How dumb was that?

I would go knock on the ex's door.

1) It would be a house. 2) I would assume she's there because her daughter and granddaughter are there, or that her ex and his wife have some things they want to get rid of, and she wants to make sure it's not something she wanted to save for her kids/grandkids. Besides, it would be three hours away from home, and she would have taken the GOOD van, besides, he's remarried, and she VERY seldom goes back to the old house - if there's something there, she has one of her kids get it, and picks it up from them - so I doubt this would happen. ** Remember, if there are kids involved, they could be seeing them. If not, they could still have some bills together (my ex-wife does, and we're 13 years divorced)... or a family member of the ex is ill or getting married (I always told her family that I'm divorcing her, not them - after 15 years together and 2 kids)... or they are visiting other friends in the same complex (if you've lived there for a while, you DO/CAN make friends)... or... There are about 100 reasons and it sounds like you are thinking of only ONE. ASK them, unless it would be obvious that you are stalking/tracking/trailing them.

hmmm...i'd take a baseball bat to both headlight, slash a hole in all four tires, then carve my name into the leather seats...unless of course, they had chldren together, then that could explain the situation.

I would bring the beer.

I would think her ex has finally kicked the bucket. We might have dinner out for this occassion.