I have completely destroyed someone I love for no good reason. Is there forgiveness after something like that?
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Of course there is. Someone who loves you will find it very easy to forgive you. Love by deffinition is the ultimate expression of unbridled forgiveness. Unfortunately, sometimes it's hardest to forgive yourself.
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There's always forgiveness in relationships, in my opinion, when the person is genuinely apologetic. Only when that remorse is sincere can the two people try to move on with trust and intimacy.
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What do mean by destroyed, for all we know you could have have sabotaged her stove and she died in a explosion. In which case it'll be hard to find forgiveness, especially from your "destroyed" ex.
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yes but there's a catch,you'll also need to forgive youself.
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I think, that unless you do something like mame someone, or kill them or someone they loved, there is always room for forgiveness. you are more likely to forgive someone for doing something to you, than you are to forgive yourself for doing that same thing to others. that's a good healthy sign though, as is shows you do have compassion and regret for what you did, where as many will go about hurting people, thinking they are doing nothing wrong.
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If the person is some one you love, and they love you back they will forgive you (ifyou are sincere about your appology that is). This is a whole side to love that is not in the fairy tales. It does take time to regain trust and happiness, but forgiveness will happen. time heals all and good luck xx
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If you have completely destroyed them how are they able to forgive. I am afraid I would need to know more and what you had done before I could say if there could be forgiveness. If you deliberately did this how can you say you love them. Sorry I have become very cynical about forgiveness and am no longer a very forgiving person. I believe very much that cruelty for the sake of personal entertainment which you are saying you have perpetuated on this person is in the main unforgivable.
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Of course. But you'll have to make up for it in things...lots of them too....often...
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there is always reason, even unreasonable is a reason but I doubt it, the foregiveness that is , it depends on how destroyed they are and exactly who violated who's trust I know that once someone violates mine there is no going back but that's just me because I'm not as guillable as others I just walk away and I don't look back .. ~Nemo~
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Depends on what you did.
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I think if he was able to read your question the door would be open for foregiveness. Sometimes we know that there is no future in a relationship. That it won't lead to marriage. I've had relationships that I knew wasn't going anywhere and I've hurt them in the process but I was always honest with them.
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Honestly; yes... You can be forgiven, however; the person cannot usually forget... Sorry... Just being honest... :(
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Actually, people are pretty resilient. He's a big boy, and he'll get over it. He may well never forgive you for it, but don't hold that against yourself. In my younger days, I remember having my heart smashed into little pieces by a couple of girls. It hurt for a while, and then I adjusted my expectations and moved on. If he carries around a resentment for years after, it's his own fault. We get hurt, we move on. It's part of being an adult, and (trust me on this one) part of being a man. But, that doesn't totally absolve your conscience, either. Work your way through it, resolve to be better and move on...
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Sure, if you wear those jeans he likes!
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Sorry. . . . . . .I need more "details"!
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I dont know but could you let us know if they forgive you? Id forgive you, if it was just a mistake on your behalf and you regrete it , I would forgive..
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