There is a nice toasty bed waiting for them in hell.

They're not happy with their husband/wife.

we've all done it--it's the power of the poontang.

um, they are incredibly skanky and should be locked in jail. the only diffrence between them and prostitutes is that prostitutes get paid

If they really don't care, I don't think very highly of them. That's pretty low class, in my book

I really don't think nothing about them after all it's their choice good or bad. But at the same time if the situation was happening to me I'd think it's time to move on with my life --on to a new chapter in a better selling book. I would know I could do better.

I think they are just as guilty as the married person.

they have no self control or respect for anyone, including themselves. they will learn their lesson, you can't do something so horrible without any consequences.

I've done my fair share of being the other woman when I was younger.. for me it was just I was tired of getting my heart broken.. and it's easier to "mess around" with someone who is already committed so you know at the VERY beginning that it wont go anywhere other than a sexual thing.. I've gotten past that, though.. and now I'm happily engaged and I hope what I did to other women never happens to me... and if it does.. I guess that will be my lesson learned. At least I never split anyone up.. it always got cut off before it got too dangerous. . .

I think they lack moral fortitude and impulse control.

If the married person is the wife, and she has the permission of her husband to be sleeping with the person they are sleeping with then there is no wrong committed, even if the man is married to another woman. Many Christian do not know this but it is very much in the Bible. If however the woman does not have permission of her husband then she is guilty of sexual adultery and the man is guilty of theft. That is Biblical law but not as it is defined today. If neither of the two involved are married to one another they are free agents even when in a relationship with someone...therefore there is no wrong committed. The only agreements are those agreed to by those main two individuals in the relationship. If they violate their personal agreements then they must decide what they are going to do.

It's wrong. They should end their relationship before getting involved with someone else.

for these people to do this they have to be invited by the married person to jump their bones in the first place ... so really each are as bad as the other

That all they think about is sex, not about getting pregnent and stds and things like that. all they wanna do is get it in thats itt.

That they are disgusting and disrespectful to themselves and that person and who they are with. And that goes double for the married person or the one in a commited relationship.

I know a lot of women that only like married men. I don't condone it at all.

The sex doesn't matter. The LIE does. The most sacred part of any relationship is HONESTY.

I think its wrong. And they're both as bad as each other. How could you do that to someone? Break it off then have your fun. What happens when one day you get married, how would you feel if a women/man was having an affair with your partner? Both people are equally in the wrong in my opinion.

I'm totaly against it but we all rush to judge those prople but who can really blame them?if your the wife no matter how good you are you still get cheated on if your the girlfriend or the fiance you still get cheated on,so when you get out of those relationship who will want to go into another one so that's when you get with the married guy becuse you know that it will only be sex now imotions or no demands of being truthfull to anyone.We all do it in some point of our lives or someone does it to us,that's life and the cycle

1) It is the person in the relationship who took an engagement and who has to respect it. An exception would be if the person sleeping with the married person would be friends with the spouse of the married person, it would be a betrayal of their friendship. If they are only sleeping with them, they possibly miss other interesting things that you can get in a full relationship. 2) On the other side, I think that people who are gifted with seductive power or who trained this capacity should handle that power with care, because they could engender a lot of suffering. But I would not throw them the first stone.

It shows a lack of character. History: My wife had (is having) an affair. My wife is the major offender here, violating trust, constant dishonesty, and generally abominable behavior. The paramour should be ashamed of himself. He shows poor judgment and terrible character. But he did not violate any vows, or break any promises. Still, I hate him and all like him. The divorce is in progress. :(

It's a little late for this comment but I have lived this answer. I was the other woman and don't regret a moment of it. The wife was not a warm woman but after her husband was with me she suddenly found how nice and warm she could be. Many people won't understand this, but I think I performed a service for his (and her) family. They got back together and suddenly she acted as though she loved him. All that had to happen was that she lost her husband...Then she woke up...and found him...Thank me!

My whole family past is colored by this as my father had an affair with someone else, for years. A lot of misery came from that, and later it even influenced the children of my siblings. My whole family is fucked up by the way my father and his girlfriend dealt with us. He should have had the decency to break up with my mother first, instead of betraying all the people who trusted and loved him. People who go for someone who is already in a relationship often don't realise what pain they can cause. Or.. they choose not to realise, they don't care about it and only think about themselves. What I think about them is that they should take at least the responsibility to face what they help creating. If someone gets betrayed that way by someone he/she fully trusts, it can damage that person big time. The 'other person' is partly responsible for that too. I do understand that two people can fall in love, and that you can fall in love with someone who has a relationship. Or that you are in a relationship yourself but fall in love with someone else. That's life. But I do also think that you have the responsibility to deal with this in a way that causes the least pain. So either the person with the relationship breaks it off with the SO, in an honest way, or chooses to stay with his/her SO. The other person involved should back off untill things are worked out. That's my colored opinion. Like I said, I have seen and experienced far too much pain from a situation like this. People who just bluntly ignore the fact that someone is in a relationship, are very selfish. Not my kind of people.

I think the person "in" the relationship or marriage is the questionable one in this answer. Sorry, but if you love the person you're with then you wouldn't be put in this situation.