In a heterosexual relationship if one of the partners is willing to give the other partner oral sex but the other partner isn't willing to give him/her oral sex. Isn't that person selfish and doesn't love their partner as much they do love them?A Breakup?
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No, not necessarily. You need to find out why that person doesn't want to provide oral sex. Maybe they don't know how, many they tried once in their past and was told that they were horrible at it and to never do it again, maybe they were abuse and were force to do that against their will, maybe they were brought up to belief that mouth to genital sex was dirty and people don't do that... There are a lot of reasons for not giving oral sex. However, you might be able to work up to it slowly if you take it in small steps. You could try asking them if they would just lick other parts of the body first, then move onto more erogenous zones (nipples, lips, ears, etc.) then with the tip of their tongue, they could try to trace around the genetalia, letting them do it at their own pace and speed, eventually working up to most sensitive part of your body while not using their whole mouth, letting them see from experience that they can be in control and they don't have to be afraid of it.
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It is quite often that two people do not have the same opinion. After my opinion it is quite normal and understandable if girls and women are keen on having oral sex but never would give oral sex. It is some point of view which you can accept or not. After my opinion it is absolutely not selfish if women or girls think like that. There are males who love to have a blow and never give one. May be for those who give it might look selfish but those who receive it is absolutely not selfish.
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It is selfish to get and not give. You must stop giving. Stand your ground. Don't give in. They are using you, and you are letting them
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