Can children really prepare for adult life if they are over protected and have little opportunity of take chances and learn for themselves?
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jin jang
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Learning never stops.
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No.I believe this to be a form of abuse,to force your children to depend so much on you as a parent,because you won't always be able to be there for your kids.Disabled for life,sure.I think that most parents who do this truely love their kids and wish to do them no harm,yet inadvertingly do,unbeknownst to them.Really complicated,too.*
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Great question. And the answer is no. It's best for kids to gadually receive a little more independence as they grow older and have the opportunity to make simple decisions. Otherwise, they must learn how to make decisions for the first time in adulthood, when the stakes are much higher and their parents can't help mitigate the consequences. Some parents refuse to let their children have any indepenence for fear that the children will get hurt or make mistakes. To this, I say, "No sh1t, Sherlock, of course they are going to mess up occasionally." But it's better for kids to make those mistakes while they're young and their minds are still capable of easily learning new behavioral patterns.
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no, cuz when they step out into the world...and the first big big thing comes at em...they will get smashed into the hands of it. U gotta get experience while you are still protected under a family....or else life is gonna be very very hard. Life is real out there, with real situations. You cant just jump on a bike and ride it with no prior experiences. It takes practice, and training wheels...and a 3 wheeler first.
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No they cannot. I You have many good answers here, which support this. I believe that children should not be over-protected and even should be exposed to hardship at times, so they are prepared for disappointment, difficulty, and learn that along with responsibility comes accountability and consequences for decisions and choices. It is best for children to learn these things under the watchful eye of a loving parent, instead of on their own later when consequences could be dire. This is a great Question! :-)
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