From your question, the answer seems obvious. If he acts negatively, mooches off of you, and is lazy, then tell him you are ending the relationship. He has three days to pack and get out. If he isn't out after those three days, wait for him to leave (to a party or something) and pack up everything for him. It is not your responsibility to find a place for him to live afterwards or anything else. You are entirely within your right to kick him out. If he refuses to leave even after that - call the police! You have a trespasser.

Well, since it is your appartment and you obviously would have a sublease agreement with this other tenant, you simply follow the rules for eviction in your area.

Is it your name on the lease/tenancy agreement? Or is it a joint tenancy. If he is not on the lease then change the locks and call the police out if he will not move. You have the rights if you are the owner.

Throw his ass out! Literally, grab him and throw him out of the house and throw his stuff out too. That usually gets the point across. If that seems difficult, call dad or big borther, or cousin. Someone who could just pick him up and throw him out on the lawn. IF your working hard, and hes living off you, tak eno mercy.

Get rid of the deadbeat. You can never be happy with a rock on your back.

What do you mean "help"? If he isn't wanted, and isn't on the lease, then he's TRESPASSING. If he won't leave, then call the police. Police absolutely HATE domestic problems, mostly because the vast majority of them end up being wasted efforts due to the people repeatedly making up and subsequently requiring continued future efforts on their part. Their hands are tied in a lot of these cases. BUT, if you call them (on their REGULAR number, NOT 911) and tell them the situation, they'll send somebody over to deal with it. When they show up, remain absolutely calm, do NOT get involved in any arguments with the boyfriend no matter what he says or does. Believe me, if he insists on interupting while they are listening to you, all you will have to do is shut your mouth and let them deal with him. They will ask him for his story when they are ready. Until then, they'll NOT be very appreciative of interuptions. 1. Explain to the officers what the problem is. (You want your EX-BOYFRIEND out and he will not leave.) 2. Explain that the apartment is YOURS and he is NOT on the lease (show them the lease so they know this is true). 3. Explain that you do not wish to have anything of his left in the apartment (shows you do not want any future problems due to his property being left in your possession). 4. Explain that ALL YOU WANT IS FOR HIM TO PACK UP HIS STUFF AN LEAVE, not the pressing of charges. BUT, if he insists on not leaving, be aware that they may ask you if you wish to press charges. Your answer to this is VERY important. If you want him OUT, then the answer is YES. Which may require a trip to the police station for paperwork. Don't quibble over this. This is the END OF THE STORY unless they ask for further information. You have no need to go into personal details unless they think it's necessary for whatever reasons. Believe me, they will appreciate someone who is straight up, to the point, and very concise in what the problem is and what you need to have done. Yelling, reciting every problem and argument, and all the emotional stuff isn't anything they can deal with, except to take notes on for their records. Besides, you absolutely would NOT believe how much they will appreciate it that one party they have to deal with is calm, clear, and rational in cases like these! Makes for a d*mn good impression, which is important if something later comes up and the two of you end up in court over something. Imagine this: JUDGE: "Officer, would you please state your involvement in this case?" OFFICER: "Yes, Your Honor. My partner and I answered a call having to do with this lady whose boyfriend would not leave her apartment. When we arrived, she met us at the front door and explained she had broken up with the gentleman, but he refused to leave. She produced a copy of the lease showing her to be the sole renter and told us she didn't want him or his property in her apartment, but was unable to get him to take everything and leave. Her ex-boyfriend, however, refused to leave and became verbally abusive when we asked him to leave the premises with all his belongings. He finally started throwing clothing out the door and windows, including various appliances such as the television set and stereo. The lady started crying and complained that some of the equipment being thrown out was hers, but did not otherwise move to stop him." JUDGE: "Ma'am, do you have proof that any of the damaged equipment was yours?" YOU: "Yes, Your Honor. Here are receipts showing I had purchased these items a year ago, which was six months BEFORE we had started dating." JUDGE: "You, sir, are an *ss. I fine you elevendy Billion dollars, plus the cost of equipment replacement and court costs, and sentence you to the county "pound-me-in-the-*ss" jail for thirty days." Well...maybe it won't happen EXACTLY as I've outlined. But believe me...clear, calm, decisive, and rational expression in the midst of loud and belligerant behavior is a God-send to these people and they DO appreciate it.

thank you so much for the feed back....will take actions...God Bless You

tell him to politely leave.If he doesnt leave get the chief to talk him to death.

It's been a week since this question has been asked. Did you dump the bum yet or has he killed you. I hope you're still alive.

Ask him if he really likes what he is doing. If he is a drop out from high school or college tell him angrily, go to school! If you love him try to help him get a sucessful job. Or, dump his butt.

Open the door. Put his things on the other side of it. He will inevitably follow them outside, if only momentarily. Quick, shut the door.

throw him out and tell him to find some place elese to stay and tell him to get a job

tell him to GTFO

2 words restraining order

if he's on the lease and refused to leave then leave him there with all the bills...when he realized he's going to have to pay them or move he'll probly get out...if he's not on the lease put all his shit outside and change the locks....

i have all the confidence in the world in you...you figured out how to get yourself into this, i know you can figure out how to get yourself out of it.