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  • I think that you seriously need to reevaluate your relationship. If you have been dating for two years he should know enough about you that you aren't hoping for a free ride. And if you are in school that makes me think that you are trying to improve your earning potential. Another angle to look at it from is, does he have a good paying job? He may be afraid to make that commitment if he feels that he can't support the two of you. Look at all the facts, sit down and have a discussion and either leave, or wait it out until you have a job.
  • Well.... he clearly feels his finacial situation is what's most important to him. It's even more important than you are to him. I don't blame him for wanting to take care of himself but I would question whether he is the right guy for you. I think you could do much better. I don't think I'd feel comfortable being second in importance (if there isn't anything else that comes before you).
  • Most women wouldn't marry a man who hadn't worked for a year and still doesn't have a job. It sounds you have a fundamental disagreement on family. You sound like you want to be a housewife/student while he brings home the bacon. He seems more non traditional, where he thinks both of you should work if there are no small children to care for. You probably need to come to an agreement on this before even considering marriage.

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