Is my boyfriend gay he wants me to use a strap on on him! wtf

no! ... just because your B/F or in fact any males likes anal stimulation just means he likes anal stimulation and does NOT mean he/they are gay at all

it is called pegging and is a straight action and does not indicate homosexuality... I guess prostate stimulation feels really good... kinky, yes. deviant, arguable. gay, no... he wants his GIRLfriend to do it, not a guy

haha DONT WORRY!! my boyfriend is SOO straight and he wanted me to bang him in the ass when i was giving him head and it made him cum so fast!! hahaha sorry for being so blunt just being honest, u have nothin to worry about!!! but maybe ask him a few more questions about it..hahaha

A liking for a little pain in sex has nothing to do with homosexuality: the two are completely different phenomena. BDSM is not the same as LGBT (you might want to research those terms). Pain stimulates the endorphins, which can increase sexual arousal.

It doesn't mean he is gay.

That does not necessarily mean he is gay, if he wanted another guy to use the strap on on him then he would be gay or maybe bi.

there is nothing gay between a man and a woman ! kinky , perverted, yes gay no until he want the real thing then he's bi until he wants the real thing without you then he's gay

The fact that he is your "boyfriend" tells me no. Just do what he asks. He might change his mind pretty quickly and figure out that is an exit only orafice.

Gay or not, if it makes you uncomfortable let him know and if he won't listen to you show him the door.

id be worryed

it freak me out

No, it does not mean he is gay but if you are uncomfortable then don't let him make you do anything you don't want to do.

No. Your boyfriend would be gay if he wanted sex with another man. Men have a prostrate gland that gives then a super intense orgasm when they cum during that type of activity. Women don't have this. If it doesn't freak you out and you want to give him a big rush, do it. Nothing gay about it.

he is just sexually adventurous. Nothing to worry about. Nobody wonders if a man is gay whe he wants to do a woman anally. Its the same exct thing. He is just willing to be as adventurous as he expects you to be. This is awesome, encourage him. I WISH i had a man who was sexually adventurous. they are very rare!

Not unless you are male.

Its definitely a act of submission, he wants a woman to dominate him, not really my thing, i am into doing the domination, not the woman, but i do not believe he is gay.
If your not into being dominate during sex though, you might want to find another partner, because i believe that is probably what he is looking for in a female.

Why do people think that being gay or not is to do with physical stimulation? It seems very strange to me.

If your boyfriend has emotional feelings for other men, then he is at least partly gay. If he enjoys anal stimulation it means that he enjoys anal stimulation.

Are all the women who enjoy anal stimulation really male homosexuals?

I would say theres a good chance - there's experimenting, but thats a bit much.

Depends if you're okay with it.

As long as you just wrap it around his penisLOL
He probably wants to show you just how tough and strong it is. That's OK ... he's just being Macho there.

We used to play a drinking game, called "I Never"...
during one of these games I found out that a few of my friends' girls had slipped them fingers from time to time! Hilarious, because we were all drinking!
I know they were not gay, but it did give me something to hold againtst them! lol
I don't know about a full strap-on, though. That would make me wonder... Would he like the real thing, or is it just a "prostate milking"?

Not necessarily. Different strokes and all that....

If the request doesn't run you off, being gay will?

Apparently anal feels even better for a guy when he receives, than it does for a girl.

This is supposedly because of the way it can stimulate the prostate gland at the base of the penis.

Then again I've visited a support site for male rape victims which says the reason some raped guys hate themselves and think they must be secretly gay, is because pressure on the back of the prostate via anal sex brings on a mechanical ejaculation that the victim has no control over, so its not connected to any thrill or feelings of willingness.

If he's just curious about how it would feel and has asked you to perform the act, then as a man this is probably the first time he's ever prepared himself to hand over control and to be at someone else's mercy. He needs someone he values and can really trust not to hurt or humiliate him, and he asked you.

Unless he's done it with someone else before, he's pretty much asked you to take his virginity, in a way.

You might think its too kinky for you to have a go at, and that's fine, but you have the basis of a really good relationship there.

The technical term for that is "pegging," I think, and it isn't gay. I'm not really sure of how it works, but apparently a man's orgasms are made better with the presence of something in his ass. Go figure.

I've recently been introduced to strap-on play with my boyfriend... he's absolutely LOVES it, which I didn't 100% expect. BUT, the biggest surprise is how much I enjoy it...

It gives you a sense of power.. Role reversal is an amazing thing and can be transforming.

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no he's not gay

He would have to be attracted to another man in order to be gay or bi and want to act on that attraction. If he starts talking about how another guy looks good or something he is more then likely bi since he is with you.

homo is homo! not the gay!

I was ok with it at first , but then he had a porno on of a girl peging her boyfriend ! To do it and to actually see it getting done to some one made me feel kinda sick and turned inside out!!! Is this normal b/c I feel like I need therapy, am i losing it or what ?

only your BF can say if he's gay or not.. but if he is what would stop him finding another man to fuck? he nust trust you a lot just to ask..

He isn't gay. If after this experince he only wanted you to do him with a strap-on and was no longer interested in your body, it would be cause to become suspicious. If a woman likes anal sex, then she just likes anal sex. The same is true for guys. He is with you for a reason He is attracted to you and your body. Give the guy some credit for being open and honset with you about his desires, it took trust for him, my advice is to reciprocate the trust and talk openly to him about your fears and hold ups about strap on play.

Okay, people...listen up and listen good!! A man IS NOT GAY just because he wants to be "pegged" by his woman alright! The only way he would be gay is if he is sexually attracted to men...PERIOD!!! Just because he wants you to peg him is most likely, because he is curious and adventuresome. It also could be he has fantasies of being Dominated by you/women sexually. How do I know this? Because I am both of these, but I am 100% straight!! The very thought of being sexual with any man, makes me want to puke!!! So please, put this to rest once and for all!!!!

no way ( i mean im not god he totally could be gay but not just because he wants you to use a strap on) ! your bf sounds like he is simply alot more experienced and open-minded with sex than you..thats it. my bf is a WHOLE lot more experienced than me, but it doesnt turn me off - it shocks him n turns him on that i dont find him freaky or nasty especially as i lack experience etc, in fact it facinated me i love it i love hearn him tell me all the naughty things he wants to to do me and describe each n every one..its hot! i think the fact that i dont have any preconceptions about whats right n wrong with sex is what makes me find it all so exciting and bazaar and amazing.. he turns me on so much, he trusts me to shove a big dildo attached to my crotch up his tiny a-hole...im pretty sure thats a gud thing haha, i love him so much and he loves me to bits.. i wana please him, why wouldnt i? why wouldnt you want to aswell?

I'm pretty sure if he was gay, he wouldn't have a girlfriend. He'd have a boyfriend. Strap-on play is more popular with heterosexual couples than any other demographic. Do some research. Open your mind. Get over yourself, otherwise, your relationship is history and he'll find another girl who is hotter and kinkier and fits him better. It's up to you, but there's nothing wrong or even gay about him.

This may be an indicator of gay tendencies, but then again it may not, plenty of heterosexual men indulge in this kind of thing.

That does not mean he is gay. A man's G-Spot is in his anus so he might want to be stimulated. There are a few toys that help stimulate the male G-Spot.
He could also be bi-sexual, meaning he loves you but also likes the idea of gay sex.
Be open and talk to him about it. Tell him your concerns and fears.

maybe but straight guys like their prostate gland inside their anuses stimulated too and like to watch porn with naked guys

i would just like to say that my girlfriend uses a strap on on me regularly and it is the most amazing sex ever. and i am in no way gay whatsoever so yes it is possible for straight men to enjoy anal sex with there partners and is quite common

Hmm...maybe he is sexually gay but theres a big difference between sex and love. Don't go dumping him because he might be turned on by 'gay' sex- especially if he still loves you.

He is a masochist, which has nothing to do with being or not being gay.

There is no one definative explanation as to what causes masochism.

Masochism is considered a paraphilia, which litelraly means abnormal or unnatural attraction.

Nevertheless, while statistics are not available, it is clear that there are many practitioners.

I'm not gay but do like many kinds of sex toys in my ass, I agree with previous answer, the fact he wants a girl to do it just means he gets turned on by the submissive act of being bent over by a girl and getting a fat dong slipped in him.

Maybe he wants to find out if he is. If likes the strap-on feeling and leaves you to move in with "Chad," then I'd say he is.

Not at all, guys have fetishes. He either likes to be dominated or simply likes the way it feels.

nah he's just kinky, but hell i couldn't even do that let alone inflict pain like that, i'm out!