How old was your first sex partner?

Thanks, Ace.
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by Brian on May 15th, 2009

Did you also introduce her to oral?
I think the ages you mention here are pretty normal as a starting point for many people.

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by Andres on May 16th, 2009

Holy cow! Thanks, QuartzKitty.
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by Brian on May 14th, 2009

Wow!

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by alwayscurious on May 14th, 2009

Even to this day, he remains one of the best rides I've ever had.

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by QuartzKitty on May 14th, 2009

Brave man...
Thanks, QuartzKitty!

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by bubbletrouble on July 22nd, 2009

Brave how?

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by QuartzKitty on July 22nd, 2009

Just brave :-)

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by bubbletrouble on July 22nd, 2009

yikes!!!!! I would punch him in the face if I knew who it was.

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by dfasfsd on July 28th, 2009

Why> He was an excellent lover.

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by QuartzKitty on July 28th, 2009

I think that's horrible. but more power to ya.

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by dfasfsd on July 28th, 2009

I think bubble trouble is saying you're brave to admit that.

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by dfasfsd on July 28th, 2009

I think bubbletrouble is talking about the guy, as I'm a chick.

And how is it horrible? I'm the one who seduced him.

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by QuartzKitty on July 28th, 2009

uhhhh even worse. and you should ask bubble. I'm pretty sure I'm right.

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by dfasfsd on July 28th, 2009

Even worse that I seduced him? Why? I'm a very sexually open person, and have never been ashamed of that.

And I was never attracted to teenage boys. They grossed me out.

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by QuartzKitty on July 28th, 2009

I'm sure you were molested. I was too and it screwed me up for a long time. 12 years old is an innocent child who should have no idea how to seduce men. I'm scared to think of how you learned to.

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by dfasfsd on July 28th, 2009

I wasn't 12. I was 13. And ANY guy (OR woman) will give into sexual advances if you keep at it for several months like I did.

And I'm sorry that you were molested, but I wasn't. I've worked with molestation victims, and it is a very bad thing. But, don't project your own issues on to me.

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by QuartzKitty on July 28th, 2009

okey dokey! I'm pretty sure you just told your little story to show guys how sexually twisted you are. props on being sexually twisted. sorry I butt in. I will leave now. byeeee.

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by dfasfsd on July 28th, 2009

Look, I sympathize with what you went through. I do. I've dealt with molestation victims myself, so I know how it can damage them. But, unfortunately, it clouds the way they see the world, and they tend to believe that everyone is as damaged as them. They aren't.

I am a sexual person. I enjoy sex, and always have. I like pushing the limits of my sexuality, experimenting, and finding my threshold. I make no apologies for that.

If being unashamed about my sexuality maks me 'twisted', then so be it. Again, I fear that you are projecting your own problems on to me.

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by QuartzKitty on July 28th, 2009

And I should add, I never do anything just to titilate someone. That's not the type of person I am..

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by QuartzKitty on July 28th, 2009

I'm am extremely open about my sexuality. but I am also a devoted wife and mother. I don't have any problems with my sexuality that I'm aware of. I've also been a very "sexual" person my whole life and I am superb at the art of seducing. ask any guy who has tried to resist me. hahaha.. Ok.. ok. You don't got problems and I don't got problems. truce.

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by dfasfsd on July 29th, 2009

Truce.

I know molestation happens, and it is tragic, but not ALL cases of sex between teenagers and adults are molestation or involve coercion. Some teen girls willingly seek out sex with older partners, as I did, and I was the one who initiated the sex in every case, I wanted to fuck. I made that decision myself

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by QuartzKitty on August 5th, 2009

that statement contradicted itself. You said your effing habits had nothing to do with coercion in the beginning, but earlier you said that you totally seduced that innocent 25 year old. so which was it?

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by dfasfsd on August 5th, 2009

Coercion and seduction are NOT the same thing. Coercion involves some form of force, power and intimidation. http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/coercing

Seduction is tempting or enticing. http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/seduces

Besides, I meant coercion on the ADULT'S part. ;)

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by QuartzKitty on August 5th, 2009

girl. just admit you were abused and lets move on. it's ok. I'm here for you.

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by dfasfsd on August 5th, 2009

Still projecting your own problems on to me, I see.

Let me ask you something. How can someone who INITIATES a sexual encounters, who is the dominant party, who is the one in control, be abused?

That's like saying I was raped because a couple of weeks ago, I finally got a woman I'd been flirting with for months into bed (I'm bisexual). I'm the one who came on to her, who initiated the encounter. I was the 'dominant' one in the encounter (not in a D/s type of way, but in the 'more experienced, made the first move, more sexually assertive' type of way).

It's ridiculous.

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by QuartzKitty on August 5th, 2009

why did you change your answer to say 13 when it was originally 12?

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by dfasfsd on August 5th, 2009

I think you've misread it, my friend. It's ALWAYS said 13. I've been consistent on that issue in other answers I have given here.

Besides, if I'd edited it, you would see something at the bottom that said that the message had been edited, on what date, and how many times.

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by QuartzKitty on August 5th, 2009

why do you hate me so? Lets kiss and make up. see who caves first in the seduction contest.

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by dfasfsd on August 5th, 2009

Nope. It's also on answers. Check out my answer here for proof: http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/7051052

Oh, I was wrong. The editing message appears Above the answer, not below it.

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by QuartzKitty on August 5th, 2009

I don't hate you, CJ's Mama.

And if you tried to seduce me, I wouldn't say no. You wouldn't have to try at all, in fact. ;-)

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by QuartzKitty on August 5th, 2009

holy cow! this is the most I've ever flirted with another woman before. congrats!!!!!!

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by dfasfsd on August 5th, 2009

Wow. I feel special.

And I've been told that I have a talent at getting women into bed.

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by QuartzKitty on August 5th, 2009

You've convinced me of your sincerity. Just sucks that thinking about going down on a woman makes me gag.

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by dfasfsd on August 5th, 2009

I was with a woman once who wasn't initially comfortable giving oral sex to another woman. She was very reluctant to do it. Once she did, though, she found it enjoyable. Last I heard from her, she was involved in her first long term relationship with another girl.

I've found that most women taste sweet. Almost like honey.

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by QuartzKitty on August 5th, 2009

I know how I taste and I know it's sweet, which is weird, but I guarantee you I will never want to taste someone else's sugar. ever. I think i'm going to stick to skittles and swedish fish.

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by dfasfsd on August 5th, 2009

Well. This conversation has taken an interesting turn.

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by QuartzKitty on August 5th, 2009

and lets not forget cream filled giant popsicles. i'll always love those, too.

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by dfasfsd on August 5th, 2009

..lol

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by dfasfsd on August 5th, 2009

I enjoy eating pussy, and have never failed to get another woman into bed (even a supposedly 'straight' woman), but I am sure that there are women out there who WOULDN'T enjoy being with another woman.

You may be the first I've ever met that my charms would have no affect on.

Too bad.

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by QuartzKitty on August 5th, 2009

hehe. it's was fun while it lasted.. but, mmm I'm craving big stick popsicle now.. I'm off to bed to satiate my desires! kisses and huggles :)

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by dfasfsd on August 5th, 2009

I like 'popsicles' too.

Being bisexual is wonderful. Makes it twice as easy to find a sexual partner or a relationship.

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by QuartzKitty on August 5th, 2009

being married makes it 100% better and easier :)

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by dfasfsd on August 6th, 2009

Marriage isn't my thing. You may enjoy it, but I wouldn't.

I have no problem with monogamy, as I was once in a relationship that lasted 3 years, and I loved it, but I like the ability to quickly and easily get out of a relationship gone sour.

Besides, I like men and women too much. I would miss pussy too much if I married a man, for example.

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by QuartzKitty on August 6th, 2009

every time I hear you say the "p" word I cringe :P

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by dfasfsd on August 6th, 2009

Yeah, I've got a filthy mouth. And, it's SO much filthier in person. I'm more reserved on the internet. :p

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by QuartzKitty on August 6th, 2009

Can you be a little less vague?

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by Brian on May 14th, 2009

he was 22...I wasnt even close

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by account closed. on May 14th, 2009

Good enough. Were you around, say, 16?
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by Brian on May 14th, 2009

somewhere around there

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by account closed. on May 14th, 2009

I think that means you were younger ;-).

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by Brian on May 14th, 2009

Sounds so hot, sorry if it was bad experience for you, I am sure he loved it.

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by 08Busa on August 4th, 2009

Thanks, doesnotmakesenseatall.
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by Brian on May 14th, 2009

25.. so you waited till 25... so long
so patiencne has its own rewards.. what were your rewards...

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by subiedrienker..fame in my name on May 15th, 2009

Even older than me, at 23 or 24. Thanks Rebecca.
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by Brian on May 15th, 2009

He was about 3 or 4 months older than I was.

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by Anonymous on May 20th, 2009

i m still 25 whats u r age rebacca sorry if u dont mind

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by abuser on May 20th, 2009

I'm currently just a couple of months shy of 32.

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by Anonymous on May 20th, 2009

great i like 30 plus

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by abuser on May 20th, 2009

Wow, you can't do it much younger than that! You like those "older" women, huh?
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by Brian on May 15th, 2009

Lol...well i did then ! haha

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by Andres on May 15th, 2009

Thanks, nice jugs. I take it you were MUCH younger than him?
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by Brian on July 18th, 2009

well !! about 17 +,,,

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by nice jugs on July 18th, 2009

Wow! Are you saying that you were 17+ years younger than him, or that you were 17+ years old?

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by Brian on July 19th, 2009

17 years old or there about,,,,!! you would never thought he was in his fortys,,,,he looked 31 may be,,,

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by nice jugs on July 19th, 2009

Then, I reiterate: wow!

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by Brian on July 19th, 2009

go on then,,,reiterate away,,,,this is going to be good,,,,

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by nice jugs on July 19th, 2009

Wow! :-).

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by Brian on July 19th, 2009

You were 17 at the time, when he was 45, so more wow, wow, wow.

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by Hotchik on September 5th, 2009

yes but as i say ,,,you would never have know he was that old,,,,and it was 3-4 months before i found out,,,god he was fit though,,,emmm

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by nice jugs on September 5th, 2009

What's it like to be that young, and be with a guy that much older?

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by Hotchik on September 5th, 2009

Much better than with some one of 17 years ,,,,he really knew what to do,,if you know what i mean,,,,!!

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by nice jugs on September 6th, 2009

Thanks, Helga. I bet it's something you'll never forget :-).
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by Brian on July 18th, 2009

for the record: I really wish I would have waited until I got married, especially because my husband was still a virgin on our wedding day :(

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by dfasfsd on July 28th, 2009

Thanks, INDYLA.
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by Brian on August 4th, 2009

welcome brian

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by Indyla on August 5th, 2009

Damn young!
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by Brian on July 27th, 2009

Thanks, bigarter. Welcome to Answerbag.
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by Brian on July 8th, 2009

Ah, a minor - something I've never experienced. My youngest was 21.


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by Brian on May 14th, 2009

Thanks, Anonymous.
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by Brian on November 23rd, 2009

The scoundrel!
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by Brian on October 10th, 2009

Very young, Hotchik.
Thanks.
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by Brian on September 5th, 2009

So, I've been told, but I couldn't wait, not my B/F, but me. He was always trying to save me from myself, but this time I was to much for him, and he surrendered. I just couldn't wait to see what it felt like.

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by Hotchik on September 5th, 2009

How did it feel? I think I know the answer though

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by RubeWaddell on September 6th, 2009

Quite young! I was 17...trying to think of HIS age....was a little older than I was. But, BEFORE age 17, maybe I was 16.....I had a b/friend who pleasured me orally often. All that ever happened between us was that & kissing. I think THAT was how I got to loving so much to be licked in my pussy!! He did that for me so often, & so well mmmmmmmmmm!

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by alwayscurious on September 7th, 2009

Here's 1 point anyway :-).
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by Brian on October 10th, 2009

How was he helpful have you used what he tought you with other people? How old are you now? You seem to know a lot about how to have fun with sex.More so them me and I am 33

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by Steve 313 on August 4th, 2009

Haha well he helped me with everything like how to do stuff unlie some guys and they just kinda leave you hanging. Im 31 and the only reason I do is cause im always openminded willing to try everything.

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by Babe488 on August 4th, 2009

I hope you're kidding.
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by Brian on October 10th, 2009

Of course he's kidding! The dick doesn't get hard at that age!

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by I Am Gone on November 26th, 2009

@ tbilgin - the question asks the age of your PARTNER, he could have been any age :-(.

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by Brian on November 27th, 2009

Thanks, Anonymous.
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by Brian on July 8th, 2009

Thank you, TravNasty.
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by Brian on June 5th, 2009

Thank you, heather.
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by Brian on June 5th, 2009

Thanks, Violet :-).
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by Brian on May 31st, 2009

Thanks, G Man.
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by Brian on May 31st, 2009

That's a lot older than most.
Thanks, Maverick.
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by Brian on May 20th, 2009

NP Brian. :)

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by 007 plus Maverick equals Pure Awesome on May 20th, 2009

Fairly old compared to these others.
Thanls, Gina.
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by Brian on May 20th, 2009

Thank you, Bugs-Bunny.
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by Brian on May 20th, 2009

Wow - thank you, rosieposy.
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by Brian on May 20th, 2009

Thank you, Dodger Dude.
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by Brian on May 20th, 2009

Ahh, those OLDER women :-).
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by Brian on May 18th, 2009

Thanks, Curtis.
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by Brian on May 20th, 2009

Thanks, CherryBomb.
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by Brian on May 20th, 2009

Thank you, Xanros.
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by Brian on May 15th, 2009

what do you mean attempted?

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by lucas6 on June 4th, 2009

well not everything worked as it was supposed to if you catch my drift. i previously had an orgasm and the girl was sub par to say the least; the condom didnt help matters any either

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by Xanros on June 9th, 2009

Thank you, subiedrienker.
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by Brian on May 15th, 2009

Thanks, THE Knotcrafter.
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by Brian on May 15th, 2009

Thank you, love_master.
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by Brian on May 15th, 2009

Thanks, Dom.
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by Brian on May 15th, 2009

Each of the above, if you dare :-).

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by Brian on May 14th, 2009

Sexual contact stimulation to gratification my partner was 13...
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Vaginal penetration my partner was 15...

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by Rocket on May 14th, 2009

Thanks, Rocket, you were an early starter (or else you just like 'em young) :-).

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by Brian on May 14th, 2009

Sorry, I'm out of points for you.

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by Brian on May 14th, 2009

Yes I was an early starter... started with girls... we taught each other the facts of life and how things work...

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by Rocket on May 14th, 2009

wow.. what an educative beginning....

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by subiedrienker..fame in my name on May 14th, 2009

You have to start somewhere...

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by Rocket on May 15th, 2009

yes thats the need and no one knows better than me who is still var gin

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by abuser on May 15th, 2009

ohh are you a woman????

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by Rocket on May 15th, 2009

no
i m telling about my thing

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by abuser on May 15th, 2009

Thank you, TRK360.
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by Brian on May 14th, 2009

Hmmm...so, you were what, 15?

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by Brian on May 14th, 2009

well, 14/15 yes. Uhh...was not one of my better choices.

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by Pixie - jeg er elsket on May 14th, 2009

Thanks, Pixie :-).

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by Brian on May 14th, 2009

Thanks, StacieO.
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by Brian on November 23rd, 2009

Thanks, American.
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by Brian on November 9th, 2009

Thanks, Someguy.
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by Brian on October 10th, 2009

Very young.
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by Brian on August 30th, 2009

You guys were just a year younger than we were. (above)

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by Hotchik on September 5th, 2009

Thanks, Aaliyah.
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by Brian on October 10th, 2009

Interesting.
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by Brian on October 10th, 2009

Yowza!
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by Brian on August 4th, 2009

I was only 10, so no I didnt rape some little girl, lol.

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by 08Busa on August 4th, 2009

Good. I see you like those "older" women :-).

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by Brian on August 5th, 2009

lol, yeah, but somehow my wife is 4 years younger than me.

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by 08Busa on August 5th, 2009

Thanks, Steve. I was the same age, but don't know how old the woman was.
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by Brian on August 4th, 2009

So she was just 8?

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by Andres on August 4th, 2009

Not as late a bloomer as me.
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by Brian on July 31st, 2009

Not a late bloomer at all!

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by I Am Gone on November 26th, 2009

Thanks, sufferur. You like those Cougars, huh?
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by Brian on July 31st, 2009