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  • Because you are a glutton for punishment. For some reason you are finding it hard to let go, perhaps you are more afraid of your life without them than the pain of loving someone who cannot love you back. It isn't healthy but it isn't unusual either. Only you can find the strength to let go. Maybe you feel that person is hurting or suffering. If someone told me that they could never love another woman I would think that they were hurting. It is very difficult not to want to care for someone who is hurting. Maybe that is the level of the love. Just a caring, protecting sort of love, but not a romantic sort of love, can you tell the difference? If you can it will be easier to distance yourself from truly loving them to just feeling sympathy instead. Remember, you can not fix another person. They have to choose to do that for themselves.

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