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  • Unless you want to raise this child by yourself, no! Getting pregnant does not a stable relationship make!
  • Your boyfriend proposes a break up and you propose having a baby? That is one of the most immature and selfish things I've ever heard. A baby is not going to make him stick around, will add more stress to an already stressful situation and will not be the cure for your problems. A person who is really putting a baby's needs first wouldn't even dream of what you're thinking. What they'd be thinking is making sure a stable home and stable parents are in place before bringing a baby into the picture.
  • It sounds like the break-up talk and the baby talk are related somehow. Are you considering having your BF as the father? Or are you considering AI? Either way, this is no situation to bring a baby into. You want either a stable relationship or a stable and voluntary celibacy.
  • the thing is that the doctor told me that i have like one more year to have a baby. I love him so much and I am financialy capable to raise a child.He's the love of my life but he was afraid of making that step.
  • I totally agree with all of the above.
  • Are you serious? Your relationship with this man is about to end and you want to try and get pregnant by him as soon as you can before the relationship ends? So you can do what, have a baby sooner than later, find a way to keep this man in your life or both? What you need to do is just let it go and go on with your life...I know it seems hard to have to start all over again by going out and finding another stable relationship with a man who will want to start a family with but to go about having a baby this way, just seems wrong not only for him but most importantly, for you...Good luck with that...
  • It sounds like he doesn't think your relationship is stable enough to bring a child into. It is entirely up to you whether you decide to go ahead and have a child but if you are wanting to have a child with your b/f then I would advise him - getting pregnant without him knowing what you are planning would be deceitful and unfair.
  • God no, sure sounds like it's not what he wants.
  • If this is 100% percent about your having a child and 0% about trying to get this guy to stick around then GO FOR IT! TALK TO HIM( NOT GO BEHIND HIS BACK) If he is not willing to be your donor....there is a bank with millions of them. Pick one and enjoy your life as a mommy! All women deserve the chance to do so if they desire. Best wishes to you and hope Congrats are in order soon!

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