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No one is going to fit anyone's needs 100% but there's nothing wrong with being a little selective. I don't know that that's being picky or not but you shouldn't have to settle for someone who doesn't meet at least a lot of your needs and you should be willing to fulfill their needs as well. You can get sex anywhere, a real relationship is all about needs and not just sexual needs. Just about anyone can satisfy their own sexual needs when it comes right down to it. Satisfying emotional needs is a lot harder and much more complex.
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I would guess that someone who is too picky is not selfish but rather scared of intimacy and yes, maybe of being hurt. what better way of staying out of relationships because we all know that no one will fit here needs 100%. I would feel sorry for her rather than place judgements on her. Its sad.
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