ANSWERS: 10
  • Your boyfriend can't control what his friends say or think. But if he cares for you then he should talk to them, explain that their actions upset you, and if they don't respect his feelings then they aren't really his friends.
  • I don't know what kind of friends would do that unless there's something you've done that you're not telling us about. I think he can either drop them or see them apart from you. I don't see much point in your putting yourself into social situations with them.
  • There is not anything for YOU to do . Your Boyfriend, on the other hand needs to set his friends strait .... either they lay off of you OR ; they will NOT be friends anymore . PERIOD. That is NOT an ackward position since YOU are suposse to be the one he loves and a MAN always takes up for the woman he loves or he's NO man ...
  • my friends would never do that to anyone i liked friend or boyfriend because they know how pissed off i would get...if they don't like the person i would respect them and not bring them to their house or any function thrown by them and likewise they should respect me and keep their opinions to themselves unless asked for....I asked my cousin for a favor for a friend of mine and she said 'is it for you or is it for him?' and I said 'does it matter? i'm the one your doing the favor for' she did it without another word...and I would do the same for one of my friends...in my opinion when his friends disrespect you they are saying that they don't care about your feelings or your boyfriends
  • To be fair, they could like you, but are just being rude because thats the relationship they share. My friends always made fun of me about my girlfriends all the time, but I still love my friends a ton. Its just the way some people interact. It's also possible that they don't like you because you bf acts differently when around you (which most guys do) which they think you are changing the personality of the friend they enjoy.
  • You know if ab was 30yrs. old this would be one of Yoko Ono's questions. Do nothing if its putting your friend in an awkward situation he needs to decide what is important.
  • i dont think there is anything you can do. If you have done nothing, chances are, its just the fact that he is in a relationship that bothers them. they most likely view you as what is holding him back from partying and carousing with them, when in reality, it is HIS desire to not do that. He needs to not allow their company while you are present.
  • Hmmm...I wonder why, sounds like they're seeing something in you that could be a problematic or did your boyfriend just broke up with someone? if not then what you can do is try to find out what their issues are and go from there.
  • first i would avoid any place that would put him in a position that he would have to speak up for me. the main question: When the lights gose off his friends will not be their, limite party time, i will not allow anybody to disrespect me. silent can never be misssssssssss understood.......... email me when you are ready to take boss class. lol
  • oh man! i have been there before. if they are true friends to him they wont or wouldnt disrespect you. if you are what makes him mappy they should be happy he has you. he needs to drop them.

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