Yes I have and I actually have came in between a friend of mine and her husband as he was beating the hell out of her and I would notstand for it so I cold kocked him with a cast iron skillet across the head and knocked him out. After that he never hit her again and always walked away from me.

Yes. I have also wanted to hit a girl for the way she treated her boyfriend.

yes, many times!

Why bring myself to their level? Why should I make myself as bad as they are, losing my temper? I'd rather they were punished in a more reasonable way and for the other person to see them for what they are and escape.

Even though I've never seen a situation like that. I probably couldn't do anything about it. I really don't have a right to hit him because of what he's doing to his supposedly girlfriend. If I think twice about it, I would probably think in my mind that some women seem to like abusive relationships, seeing as how alot of them always turn down the nice guys for the guys that treat them shit in the dirt like the type of guy your describing. But in other words I don't think I have a right to play hero in that circumstance if I didn't know her or the guy who is mistreating her. If I saw them having sex I couldn't hit him because of what he's doing to her, its none of my business correct? So its no different if he was beating the daylights out of her either or treating her like trash all the time, I'd probably get in trouble with the law both ways.

I have many times but only did it twice. Knocked one of them out cold but the other one got up straight away and just walked off knowing he was in the wrong and a crowd had started to form.

Yes and also wanted to hit her for being stupid enough to allow him to speak toher in such a manner.

No. That's not my problem but hers

Yeah, and her too, for putting up with it.

Yes I have wanted to. And tried to get her to leave his worthless butt too. Vicious cycle though. She always ended up back in his house. I finally got tired of saving her from his clutch and she moved away. I haven't any idea if she is dead or alive from his abuse. ????? +5

No but i have been tempted to let them know all about and sometimes i have in many various ways.If she was at risk of being physicaly harmed well thats a differrent story.

More like taking her aside and giving her some advice while I shake her shoulders!

No, violence is never the solution. In fact, violence usally only begets more violence. It's much better to talk things out.

yes because of the wayy he did treate his gf

Of course, but instead prison did it for me.

yes... i'm usually the girlfriend... (it's always a love tackle though <3)

Already done that.

I've felt anger towards a girl for LYING about her boyfriend and making him look like a huge asshole, even though she was the one always threatening to break up with him. She was the one talking behind his back as often as she could. She was the one who would cuddle other guys right in front of his face. She was the one who agreed to have sex with him and then called it rape. She was the one who would cheat on him or break up with him to fuck someone else and then end up right back with him. She was the one who would only ever say what he was doing wrong and never what she did wrong in her relationship. She was the one who would make herself come out innocent, no matter what situation she was in. She is one of the reasons I don't always take people seriously when they complain about their relationships. The only time I wanted to hit her boyfriend...? When people around him finally realized how big of a manipulator she is and he was willing to kill them over it ... because he was just that obsessed with her. He pretty much let her get away with treating other people like shit because he would rather be miserable just so that she could be happy, no matter how many people she hurt in the process and no matter how many people's lives she tried to ruin, including when she'd try to ruin HIS life. It was sad that he was under the false impression that she is the one who has made him the happiest she's ever been. He was happier before her. I remember. He had a girlfriend who really loved him. He broke up with that girl for this girl, though. Like every time I'd see him, he'd be upset or crying or something, and it was clear he was depressed. I guess he was just so blinded that he couldn't even tell she was doing this to him. As far as I know, they are no longer together.

no, i wanted to beat the hell out of him!

My brother did that. He ended up in jail and now has a record for the rest of his life. It wasn't worth it. Just call the cops or something.

I did once ... he was beating her, so I beat him ... many moons ago. I believe I would do things a little different these days. Love her ... she is your rock. Peace

Yes, every time I see that I get mad and if the guy does not stop, I go in. Ussualy the guy sees my frustration and that is enough to cool him off. Once I beat the crap out of an imbecile like that. I just wanted him to stop, but he wanted to show off to his GF that he is super abuser. Too bad for him, I beat the crap out of him, broke 3 of his front teeth and left him there all surprised. Yes, I split, I was not going to ruin my lfe for such a garbage bag, but I am sure he learnt a great lesson, treat your GF like that, and someone out there will be ready to beat you up! I have done boxing and Tae Kwon Do since I was a kid, so I am not leery about putting an idiot abuser that does not respect women in his place. On the contrary, I have never, ever once gotten myself into a fight on my own, not once. Sefl defense teaches self control. So when I see an abuser guy taking on a woman, I give him notice that I will not take that at all. If he does not stop, I take care of my duty as a human being, as the brother of 4 beautifull systers and a son of a good mother, I protect her by putting him in his place.

Not hit, but those are the kind of relationships I have no problem breaking up if I want the girl.

Yes. Once I had a save a girl (flatmate) from being drowned in the swimming pool by her b/f. I got several stiches from him for my efforts, but it was worth it.

Yea all the time, i hate men who treat women poorly

I did hit my best friends ex boyfriend once. Also my Ex beat me badly before, left me with fractured ribs, split lip and 2 black eyes and my friend heard shouting and came in and thumped him one

Uh, yeah!! One of my friends had an abusive boyfriend. Once we were at a BBQ and he sat down, handed her a plate and grunted at her. This meant that she was supposed to give him a hamburger. I could see the bruises on her arm from that morning. I really wanted to whack him one then.

More like shoot.

I had to threaten a couple of my sister's boyfriends in the past. One I didn't hit because I liked him, despite him mucking my sister around, and the other my sister asked me not to hit as she still had feelings for him, though she admited a while later that she wished she'd let me give him a kicking....

Many times.

I don't remember ever wanting to, but that doesn't mean I haven't. I don't see how me hitting him would make me any better, though.

i actually punch him.and i said that he is a pig

Yeah, I got in a couple of fights. I'd say something to him or even once to her (Hey, when you want to be treated nice, here's my card). Funny thing is, the girls went ahead and left with "Johnny Dangerous".

yes.

I did once. It didn't turn out so well. The girl got pissed at me and said that was her man and I'm an asshole. I turned to the guy and apologized and told him to continue with the ass whipping he was giving her. I have never gotten involved in another couple's dispute again.