Answers from ADULTS only! Would you let your 15-year-old daughter's 20-year-old boyfriend spend the night and sleep in her bed with her at your house? OR would you let her go to his parents' house and spend the night with him in his bed with him?
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ANSWERS: 31
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I wouldn't even let my 18 year old daughter sleep with her 20 year old boyfriend in my house unless they were married.
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No. I would have the 20 year old arrested for rape.
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Neither. flat out neither.
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NO!!!! (I thought I wanted a daughter (2 sons) but I'm soooo glad that I don't! I would lose my mind!!!)
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N E I T H E R !!!! it sounds like she has more rights than most 15 y/o regardless. GL
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He would be welcome in my house. He would be welcome to stay for the night. But I could not condone sex at such an age, which is essentially what allowing them together alone in her bedroom would be. Given that she has a 20 year old boyfriend that's probably already happening, and isn't going to stop, but I won't put my approval on it. I would have a talk with her about why, but my answer boils down to: No.
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NO. Absolutely not...no ifs ands or buts about it!
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no, mainly coz by law you would be allowing someone to have sex with a minor under your own roof this minor being your own daughter. i think you just need to check with your daughter that she is using contraception etc (have that talk if you havent already)and tell her you dont approve of this relationship if you dont but you beleive she is mature enough to make her own decision and you will be there if she needs anything because lets face it shes 15 and im sure she'll rebel if you stop her having contact with her boyfriend and find a way to somehow anyway, then exaplain to her that your not going to stop her seeing her boyfriend but having sex whilst your mum is sleeping next door is not happening! im sure when put like that she'll be put off the idea to.. i no i would!
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ABSOLUTELY NO! In fact, HELL NO! And what is a 20 yr old guy doing with a 15 year old girl...has he heard of 'jail bait'?
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Absolutely not! I would, however, have the 20 year old investigated for statutory rape. In fact, I wouldn't even let her have a 20 year old boyfriend in the first place. If she objected, I would show her the door and get her legal advice on emancipating herself.
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I would have absolutely no problem with it, seeing as how I'd have already cut his d!ck off, and mounted it above my fireplace.
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my 15 year old daughters 20 year old boyfriend wouldnt have legs to walk over to my house!
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I was 15 once, and I know I would have been so happy with my mother if she had just let my boyfriend stay the night with me, it would have given us a real bonding moment (or two). But I'm 26 now and and SO GLAD my mother would have never allowed this, and can see now how ludicrous it would have been for her to do so. My parents ALWAYS had to know where I was, talked to other parents of places I said I was going, made me call every couple of hours to check in, and gave me specific times to be home, and as an adult, I am incredibly thankful that they did.
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My 15 year old daughter wouldn't have a 20 year old boyfriend.
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My daughter wouldn't have a 20 year old boyfirend. If she did, she would need to hide it form me, or he would be in jail. So for sleepovers... Never!
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that is crazy talk i don't have kids but the parents should be arrested if they let that happen along with the 20 yr old male, now go call the law+5.
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sounds like it's time to get the shotgun out... No way!! call the police and lock the daughter at home.
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at my house, as soon as hes on my property i have the right to shoot him
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i wouldn't let my 15 year old daughter have a 20 year old boyfriend, much less spend the night in the same bed with him. that is crazy talk. watch maury & you'll see what results come from that type of parenting.
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15 and 20 is a big age gap for those ages. So I would have to say NO. I have a daughter and when she is 15 I hope to GOD that I am not in your shoes!! I would be locked up! My prayers go out to you!
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Not w/o a court order! That & a bodyguard to do some bodily damage. Sorry but i could not sit by & watch or allow that without ending up in jail. She would get neither choice.
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FIRST of all, what "responsible" parent(s) ALLOWS their 15-year-old daughter--to have a 20-year-old "boyfriend????????"
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Weel I have a 15 yr old this is why I have a dull rusty axe, a case of 6 mil plastic, a battery operated saws all, and a 22 handgun (small caliber so he will suffer)and a F-350 with a cap and tinted windows. Does this answer you're question. If a 20 yr old came near my child you wouldn't ever find the pieces of him. I can understan dhow a child could be conned by an older person, but it is the parents responsibility to see through the hormones and intervene.
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thats not right! this girl at 15 shouldnt be sleeping with a 20 year old! he could get done for rape if anything happened
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I have read everyone else's answers and I agree that it is wrong and parents shouldn't allow it. The problem is that if they want to do it, they'll do it anyway, if not in his/her house, in a motel or, worse, in an alley.
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I wouldn't let them in my own house, but I wouldn't be naive enough to think I could stop them from being together if that's what they really wanted. I just give her condoms and BC pills and hope that would be enough.
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Hell No I dont have kids but a 15 and 20 year old is rape. But there would be no sleeping in the same bed in my house unless they are married. But my daughter would have to hate me for a while but I would have her boyfriend arrest for rape.
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No.Not if he is 20.But I would let her if she had a bf her age.
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First, do you approve of her dating the 20 year old? second, Do you know if they are sexually active and do you mind they are? third, if you can honestly answer those questions yes, then I say there should be no problems with them sleeping either place. The law says he can go to jail for having sex with an underage girl. People forget most girls were considered and almost old maid if she was 15 and not married and at least one child! I am opposed to the age of concent age or the difference in age requirements. So this all boils down to whether or not you can accept your daughter in the same bed with her boy friend. I would approve for a couple of reasons. 1) you know she will be safe in your or her boyfriends bedroom and bed 2) it isn't anyone elses business who she is sleeping with. If it were my daughter...yes I would allow it...this may not be an answer most would approve of...but it is one that covers the situation honestly.
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Age of consent is at least 16 in USA.So it is statutory rape at 15.
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i would not let my 15 year old have a 20 year old bf i would let her have a bf at appox her own age no older then 3 years of her age
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