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by madddyyyy on April 21st, 2009

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Im on the edge, im breaking down big time. Honestly and please, What is the best or quickest way to get over a boy you have had mad feelings ? I feel like im going to lose the plot :'( and everything reminds me of him too. Please help me?

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  • by Ailsa on April 21st, 2009

    Ailsa

    Change the things around you, get out and have fun with your friends

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  • by Anonymous on April 21st, 2009

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    You can help yourself by by teaching yourself to focus on other people and things of interest and by not dwelling on him. Care about yourself, believe in your ability to make good things happen in your life and the lives of those around you. By doing so, you will soon find you have moved past the negative and unsettling things which are occuring now :)

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  • by gocanesloco on April 21st, 2009

    gocanesloco

    dont feel alone on this.im going truogh the same thing,my wife just filed for divorce and i love her very much,so i have being trying to find answers everywhere ,there its none.you should take one day at a time and surround yourself with GOOD friends if you have them.kee living.good luch sweety.

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  • by miss skellington in mushroom land on April 21st, 2009

    miss skellington in mushroom land

    i dont think quick is an apt term here...it could take a while and unfortunately cant just be forgotten. the best way however is to remind yourself that it was for a reason you liked him and its for a reason you are not together now. allow yourself to mourn properly, feel the feelings and get thru them instead of trying to push them aside. and keep yourself occupied. it may seem like a lost cause now but in a few weeks you'll feel better because life goes on anonymous. there will be other, better boys.

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  • by The answer master on June 8th, 2009

    The answer master

    Dont try to avoid reality, face your problems head on..and try to sort something out between him

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  • by MRS COX on April 21st, 2009

    MRS COX

    it's okay because first of all u are human ,so it's okay to cry .Some people believe that crying is a sign of weakness i believe the opposite .I believe that when u can cry freely and openly that u are in touch with your inner being.With that said ,i too have been in a similar position. my best responce to u is that time heals all wounds .However , if this is truly what u want then rediscover old hobbies .I aslo need u to think long and hard about the decision u are about to make .If this love is meant to be ...in time it will come back to u .And if it does its meant to be . hope u feel better soon. I eat ice cream and watch funny movies with friends !

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  • by madddyyyy on April 21st, 2009

    madddyyyy

    im really appreciative of you answers , thanks a lot. Just ill say because i forgot to mention is that we werent dating.. kinda friends with benefits and this is the 2nd time he has called it quits cause he wants some other girl, im the stupid idiot for thinking i could get with him and telling him i like him.. that was before he has called our "benefits" behaviour off for now.
    i really do appreciate all your answers, good answers are getting points (:
    i hope he doesnt read these posts ever..

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  • by Bridget on April 21st, 2009

    Bridget

    We have all been there. Honestly it takes time, but let me tell you that the best revenge is getting right back out there...take care of yourself, look great and nothing gets you over a boy like another boy giving you tons of attention. Works every time!

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  • by Servorum Dei on April 21st, 2009

    Servorum Dei

    Give it time, it's a process, cry it all out, but start considering the fact that you were born without him, and if you have lived your life without him, he is not vital in your life.

    I know it hurts, but after a given period of time(you'll know when) give yourself the opportunity to know others, maybe you'll find a better one.

    Good luck, best of wishes.

    P.S.

    If you need to talk, count with me.

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