ANSWERS: 5
  • No, I don't think it is fair to dump your guilt on him. He didn't do anything wrong. You should get a pregnancy test and an HIV test and never get drunk, again. You said you blacked out and that you may have cheated. Were you raped or were you flirting with someone before you passed out? Or, is the blacking out just a way to appease your guilt?
  • you blacked out it is not your fault per say I mean it is also but not really every one gets carried away from time to time and I would get tested for a cheap test just give blood they will run your blood and send you the results my friend does it with all of her girlfriends before doing anything as for telling yes i am sorry but yes tell it is what is right. I hope that he is understanding
  • If you really love the guy, you need to be honest with him. He may leave you but things would probably go much more badly for you if he were to find out about the affair much later on.
  • You said you blacked out so just black the night out and start from scratch
  • If it's really the fault of the booze, then you need to put that shit down. If you can't control yourself enough to keep your baser instincts from taking completely over, then you should stay away from the stuff. Or keep doing it, but recognize that you don't get to blame the booze next time it happens. If you know that bad shit happens when you drink, but you drink anyway, you can't blame the bottle anymore. If you are blaming the bottle for something that is your fault, you need to take a good look in the mirror and decide what kind of life you want to live. If you want to party and have multiple partners and all that exciting stuff, there are PLENTY of guys who love that lifestyle and are probably more suited for you than this guy that you are afraid to tell the truth to. Either way you cannot have intercourse with this guy without informing him that he may be at risk of multiple STDs. Six months of abstinence may be hard to explain without letting him know what happened. It takes six months to make sure that you dont have HIV.

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