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well at least you've got a friend. Is really all i have to say. The guy I was in love with for a really long time, hates me. Refuses to talk TO me, but talks behind my back to my new guys that actually have interest in me.
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distance your self from them. I have been through something like that and you need an emotional outlet. Go out with your friends and have some fun, try to put the hurt behind you.
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I would not push the issue, just be friends for now, things could change later. Just don’t crowd your friend. At least you can be with that person.
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Find someone else.
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Why would you have to get over someone I like so much? That should be my problem not yours, right?
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I'm going through this at the moment. It really hurts because it's like she always leads me on, making me think i'm on a date and hurts my feelings on purpose. I personally would bother with her too much. Stay friends but keep your distance at the moment so you can move on.
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Settle for the friendship and accept it or yu will end up losing a freiend.
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You need to admit to yourself that the reason they only want to be friends is because your not good enough for them, and this is the honest truth. If they have someone they prefer to you then.. your not good enough, and why would you want someone who doesn't appreciate you the way you want them to in your life? And if you stay friends with them all they will ever think of you is as a friend even if they are ever single again.
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You deal with it on a daily basis. Accept the things you cannot change or you will drive yourself mad.
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its a tough situation, try to find someone else even if you dont like them as much, it will help you move on.
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its called LOVE THE ONE YOURE ALREADY WITH, Dipshit.
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Take that love you feel and give it to yourself each day.
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most of these advice is bull anyway u shouldnt distances ur self or forget him he is still ur friend and that better then not knowing him at all that what i always thought as well, i am so lucky i am his friend, and i got close to him and eventually he returned my feelings infact u should not give up if he doesnt have a bf get to know him more and dont tell him tat u like him anymore until u see signs that he is staring to like u (this is when he does and says things out of the ordinary to u)
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in my experience, "only wanting to be friends" rarely works out. whether it [stereotypically] is because they just want to be fwb, or they just still have feelings for you, either way, it never does any good. in the one instance where i was able to remain friends, it was because he couldn't let go, and in the end -- for as much as he hurt me -- it wasn't fair to him.
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