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by Arisztid on April 14th, 2008
That depends upon the D/s relationship.
Being in a D/s or BDSM relationship does not mean, necessarily, that you are being abused. Only you can decide if you are being abused.
If you are, I would recommend that you get help. Thriving from being abused is never a good thing.
by softside on February 18th, 2007
i am a man.Everyone that see's me know that i am all man.The way i talk,my actions,style,looks,everything. But i enjoy being submissve in the bedroom,not abused.I am very feminine in the bedroom. theres different levels for everyone is my point,but you shouldnt live your life as such.noone is or should be a slave, unless your roleplaying in the bedroom.
by little sprout on April 14th, 2008
I will give you the truth. NO I do not think you thrive nor enjoy being abused. I had a male friend that wanted to partake in events like this and I would have too. Its something to do in your bedroom during your own private time with an equally willing partner. It does not make you sick or twisted just open minded. You enjoy a little bit of adventure with your sex life. Spice it up. Basically. Be a normal happy couple during normal times, like out in a public and so on. If the dominant one requires you as the slave to where certain stuff outside the house then you must do so, but always keep the sexual stuff in the bedroom or at your playtimes. Have fun with it. Be open
by benoit_gemise on February 16th, 2007
Your caps lock button appears to be stuck.
Gives me a headache.
by Shelesey28 on April 14th, 2008
It doesnt all the time mean that you thrive from it but for some odd reason it could mean that you like being told what to do. Maybe subconciously you dont really know what you want to do with your life, so you feel better being told exactly what to do and exactly when to have it done.
by singwell-is off researching a lot on February 16th, 2007
of course it does, and that, my friend is something you should seek help for, rather than endure it.
by miss kitty on September 10th, 2009
Absolutly not.... unless that's the way you set the guidelines or expand yourself to...I am a sub with a master and let me tell you... never am i disgraced...i am always treated with respect... remember what to leave in the bedroom...Maintaining your other images is key... be it musician, mother, member of the PTA?
A good DOM will bring out the best of you... he will desire you to shine as brightly as him and encourage you to be all you are meant to be in this world.(BUT... think before you act...obedience is key!! we are women, they are men, and you will be punished for say,... too much emotion in tone of voice, or know when to be seen and not heard)... (just a couple of examples)....They are the DOM... and what they say goes... but you should be free to breath...and you ought to be encouraged to grow. The point... flourish together.
DOM/SUB relationships, in my opinion, are designed to flourish eachother and your relationship... not to stymy, stagnate, or trap you.
Good Luck!! :)
Sincerely,
OSSHSSB
by MadameRegi on February 16th, 2009
Not at all, just means u want to be cared for loved and cherished in a special way and wiling to submit to forfill ur partners desires.
The role of a sub is to please their partner!!!
Would you like to whip me? I've been bad and am getting badder by the minute! If not that then what?
by carman727 on November 15th, 2011
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Is there a difference between I Dom & a Master? Are they the same thing?
by Ms.Shaun on October 30th, 2011
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How to tell my best friend I want to be her sex slave?
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Do ameture femdom exist in India, who perform BDSM,Golden showers,facesitting,riding human pony etc.?
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Still a BDSM noob. Ideas please?
by meowmeowpurrpurr on November 3rd, 2011
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Comments
You took the words right out of my mouth (lol)
by Jen-Jen on April 14th, 2008
:) Thankyou.
by Arisztid on April 14th, 2008
(((Hugs)))
by Jen-Jen on April 14th, 2008
+6 Muro amal. Sar san?
by Zandalee.Lonely.Lunatic.3yrs-here on April 14th, 2008
Angered.
http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2747736
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Comment thread.
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I shall be over it in a bit. Sar san tu?
by Arisztid on April 14th, 2008
Henestly, things are not well at all muro amal. I will go see your comment thread.
by Zandalee.Lonely.Lunatic.3yrs-here on April 14th, 2008
I was thinking that things are not good. We should continue this in one of my comment threads without anyone else in it. I do not want to flood Naurnu's inbox.
by Arisztid on April 14th, 2008