by imanuttytartok on February 16th, 2007

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IF YOU FREELY ENTER A SUB/DOM RELATIONSHIP WHERE I AM A SLAVE HE IS MY MASTER DOES THAT MEAN I THRIVE FROM BEING ABUSED?

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  • by Arisztid on April 14th, 2008

    Arisztid

    That depends upon the D/s relationship.

    Being in a D/s or BDSM relationship does not mean, necessarily, that you are being abused. Only you can decide if you are being abused.

    If you are, I would recommend that you get help. Thriving from being abused is never a good thing.

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  • by softside on February 18th, 2007

    softside

    i am a man.Everyone that see's me know that i am all man.The way i talk,my actions,style,looks,everything. But i enjoy being submissve in the bedroom,not abused.I am very feminine in the bedroom. theres different levels for everyone is my point,but you shouldnt live your life as such.noone is or should be a slave, unless your roleplaying in the bedroom.

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  • by little sprout on April 14th, 2008

    little sprout

    I will give you the truth. NO I do not think you thrive nor enjoy being abused. I had a male friend that wanted to partake in events like this and I would have too. Its something to do in your bedroom during your own private time with an equally willing partner. It does not make you sick or twisted just open minded. You enjoy a little bit of adventure with your sex life. Spice it up. Basically. Be a normal happy couple during normal times, like out in a public and so on. If the dominant one requires you as the slave to where certain stuff outside the house then you must do so, but always keep the sexual stuff in the bedroom or at your playtimes. Have fun with it. Be open

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  • by benoit_gemise on February 16th, 2007

    benoit_gemise

    Your caps lock button appears to be stuck.

    Gives me a headache.

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  • by Shelesey28 on April 14th, 2008

    Shelesey28

    It doesnt all the time mean that you thrive from it but for some odd reason it could mean that you like being told what to do. Maybe subconciously you dont really know what you want to do with your life, so you feel better being told exactly what to do and exactly when to have it done.

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  • by singwell-is off researching a lot on February 16th, 2007

    singwell-is off researching a lot

    of course it does, and that, my friend is something you should seek help for, rather than endure it.

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  • by miss kitty on September 10th, 2009

    miss kitty

    Absolutly not.... unless that's the way you set the guidelines or expand yourself to...I am a sub with a master and let me tell you... never am i disgraced...i am always treated with respect... remember what to leave in the bedroom...Maintaining your other images is key... be it musician, mother, member of the PTA?

    A good DOM will bring out the best of you... he will desire you to shine as brightly as him and encourage you to be all you are meant to be in this world.(BUT... think before you act...obedience is key!! we are women, they are men, and you will be punished for say,... too much emotion in tone of voice, or know when to be seen and not heard)... (just a couple of examples)....They are the DOM... and what they say goes... but you should be free to breath...and you ought to be encouraged to grow. The point... flourish together.

    DOM/SUB relationships, in my opinion, are designed to flourish eachother and your relationship... not to stymy, stagnate, or trap you.

    Good Luck!! :)

    Sincerely,

    OSSHSSB

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  • by MadameRegi on February 16th, 2009

    MadameRegi

    Not at all, just means u want to be cared for loved and cherished in a special way and wiling to submit to forfill ur partners desires.
    The role of a sub is to please their partner!!!

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