Women: What do you think about carrying a child for a friend or sister? Would you ever do it? Men: Would you mind if your wife was doing it for someone?
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Vesper
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I wouldn't mind my wife carrying a child for someone if that was her choice.
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i would do it because if someone i love couldn't carry the baby themselves i think i would try to be as helpful as i can even if that means carrying the baby myself. i know that the women in my life that love me would probably do the same for me
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I don't think so. Actually, I know so. I have a serious problem with saying no to people, but I think I could do it in this situation.
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I know it is a wonderful thing to do for somebody, but I would never ask anyone to do it for me , I find the thought rather distasteful.
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G'day Vesper, Thank you for your question. I would support my wife if she chose to carry a surrogate child for her sister or a very close friend. She would need plenty of support in those circumstances. Regards
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For a close friend or sister, yes. I would not lightly take on the responsibility of nurturing a child through their development. Even if genetically the child were not mine I would feel so close to him/her I would want to be a part of their lives afterward.
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I would do it for a close friend or a sister!
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I loved being pregnant and thought for a while that I would like to be a surrogate for a childless woman, but after giving birth, I came to understand how difficult it would be to not form a strong attachment to that child. I don't think I would be able to give it up after carrying it to term. Of course, it is a non-issue for me at age 58, but I think the idea of it is totally selfless and the greatest gift of love one can give.
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I've thought about that off and on for a while because I thought I'd want to be a surrogate. My ex-husband said no because I'm not always pleasant when I'm pregnant! lol I think it would be very difficult to go through the pregnancy, then have to give up the baby, even harder if the person is close to you. I have a great respect for anyone who can do it, but I think I might get way too emotionally attached.
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I've offered to do that for a friend of mine who can't physically have kids, since we're so close and I think they'd be a good parent. I have no problem with it, I think it's a great thing that you can do for someone in need.
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I wouldn't mind, it would be a change, but in life change is just another word for excitement. Besides that it would be her choice, I suppose I would support her in it if she wanted to do so.
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i think that would be the most unselfish thing in the world - i would have done it for my sister but - she got pregnant!
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I have no problem if others want to do that. It is a beautiful gift. Myself I couldn't do it. A: because I never want to go through Nine months of heck ever again and B: I can't imagine going through all of that and not having a child to hold and love. After all that is what makes those nine months of heck worth it all!
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I would totally do it. Plus it would be cool to watch that child grow and always be close with them.
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I don't have a sister but if I did yes I would carry child for her. I have a daughter and I would carry for her as well if needed.
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I've never been pregnant for nine months and then given birth afterwards, so I don't suppose I really understand the full bonding process with a baby I've carried. In theory, yes I would consider it if I thought my sister or my close friend would make a good parent, and was financially and emotionally stable. I know some great people but they would (and do) make lousy parents. I'd also want my sister or friend to be in a stable relationship, whether it be with a man or a woman, I wouldn't care... but I would want the child to have two parents. -- and in fact, when I wrote that the first time, I wrote ''but I would want my child to have two parents.'' It'd be incredibly important for me to realise it wasn't *my* child before entering into such an agreement.
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I'd do it in a heartbeat!! That'd be a wonderful blessing for someone:)
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For the right potential parents, I would do it and actually have considered it before, however, as it turned out, they didn't need me :)
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I carried my sisters kid, but only about two blocks, then he got too heavy, had make him walk.
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I would do it....Ive known people to pay others to do it, and they take care of all the expenses during the pregnancy...but I have thought about it..
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Don't think I'll mind .. but its something that needs to be thought through very well .. its a big step that can end in disaster if not handled right ..
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well, ive already done it once...i wouldnt mind doing it again for someone who cant get pregnant.....maybe im just a nice person =)
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i wish i could find somebody nice enough to do it for me! i'm only young (nearly 19) but when you are told you can't have kids and everyone around you has a baby it's so hard. especially when you have always been maternal. ladies, its a huge thing to do for somebody but it must be worth it to see a loved one so happy for the rest of their lives
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I had agreed to carry a child for my sister, however, thanks to the miracles of modern technology/medicine, she & her husband were able to have one of their own, that she was able to carry, through invetro (sp). She is just gorgeous!
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i dont have a sister but my best mate is engaged to my bro andif it turns out she can not have a baby on her own i will offer.in an ideal situatin i would like 2 have had my own kids (or well had my own child) as i would find it very hard to give up the child but id still do it. after we have had all the children we want i would like to be a surrogate mum for a couple i do not know, reason is because id like someone out there whod do it for me, so if im able id love to help unable couples!
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I have a cousin how does not have a uterus, but does have overies and she wants children oneday, I offered to carry her children for her. I love her dearly and I see nothing wrong with it! If i was in the situation in which i could not carry my own children I would want a family member to do it for me rather than a sarogate mother!
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Surrogacy is a hard one. the worst would be that after nine months the surrogate mother does not want to give the baby over anymore
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i wouldnt do it, id get too attatched to the baby and feel like it was mine
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yes i def would... what a great gift to be able to do that for someone. and def for my sister if she could not have a child i would do that... i would prefer to have her egg and her partners sperm and i would be the surrogate. but yes def.
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i would do it...but we have to agree on some terms lol
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I think it is a wonderful thing to do. I couldnt personally do it because I would get to attached to the baby but if you can get passed that then you giving someone else the gift of life :)
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