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For me, that's normal, but if you abstained till you could pull yourself together it could be problematic especially if you don't know when enough is enough. There is a trick to it, you have to ask yourself *why* you are attracted to it, if you are equating sex with pain, meaning that you believe sex should be painful,that's not healthy, needing to be hurt in order to be aroused isn't healthy either, but it's where some people are at sooo. If you are associating pain with affection/love you need to seek out help either from a professional or rape survivor support group.
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this is actually not uncommon for people in your situation ... i've known several girls who experienced this ... if it's something that bothers you, i'd definitely talk to somebody about it ... otherwise, just go for it and enjoy it :)
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