25 and never had a boyfriend. Am I a freak? Or am I just not attractive at all? I'm pale white, and I can't remember the last time I was even commented on my looks.. Is pale a turn-off to guys?
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It is way more about your attitude and how you project yourself than physical appearance. There are some really unattractive people in the world who are in relationships so blaming it on anything physical is a cop out. Heck, even the world's fattest man just got married. I can't speak on your appearance because I've never seen you, but I doubt it is your attractiveness that is the cause of your issue. Get yourself out there and have fun. Reflect on the image you are giving off and change it for the better.
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Some guys like pale, depends on the person. I know a guy that only finds heavier girls attractive, seriously any girl under a size 14 was repulsive to him. He was considered a "pretty boy" at school too. He was asked why he always dated "big girls" and he said he wasn't attracted to smaller girls, was as simple as that.
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I like pale-skinned women. They just look pretty gorgeous.
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Well...I married a red head, so I'd have to say it's NOT a turn-off! Of course, she has a LOT of freckles, too.
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It's probably your behavior. Maybe you give off a signal that you are not interested.
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Maybe you're not trying hard enough. Go where the boys are.
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Don't be negative. Be positive. :D LOL! +
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I dont think pale is a turnoff its probably more your attitude towards guys, this is what you should do, stop thinking of guys in a relationship and think of guys as friends, making friends is easy; then pick one that your comfortable with as a boyfriend, relationships end badly because people jump the gun and dont get to know people; make guy friends first; when you love someone you dont care what they look like your always in love with who they are on the inside, my wife weve been married since 96 and I tell you to me she is the hottest women on this planet because shes fun, a personality ive always wanted; nobody will ever replace her.
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My wife is pale and I love it, pale skin looks so milky smooth. Dont get me wrong, I love tanned skin but when it comes to pale white skin. Mmm mmm, I love it. This is a little x rated http://www.emoslutsunleashed.com/images/thumbs/035.jpg http://idontwantyourlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/01/52.jpg
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Pale is far better than tan, for me anyway.
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maybe not unattractive, but not confident enough in yourself. i know many not so attractive girls and guys with bfs/ gfs. don't give up, you'll find your other half if you look hard enough!
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I'm not sure what you mean by "never had a boyfriend," does this mean you've never dated anyone, or you have dated, but it never became serious? Either way, I agree that physical attractiveness has nothing to do with it. Everyone is attractive to someone. You've either been projecting something to people that makes them think you aren't interested, or you just haven't met anyone who interests you. Maybe both. Regardless, you shouldn't feel bad or like you are a freak. One day someone is going to be very happy that you haven't had a million guys around before them. Also: I'm pale and get comments on my looks all the time. Please don't buy into the "I need to be a tanned-skin blonde-haired bimbo" crap. It's for the idiots.
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Maybe do something that makes you feel better about yourself. Get a nice new haircut, manicure, new clothes. It doesn't have to cost the world, but just a freshen up thing. Then make yourself go out of your comfort zone, it might not feel natural at first but you'll get used to it and be happier later on. Make an effort to practise your small talk, it doesn't matter if you embarrass yourself in front of some random dairy guy etc, and it'll come naturally when you talk to people that are important. I'm quite pale myself, and after years of turning orange from fake tanning attempts I think I can say I'm finally happy being this white. It isn't really that bigger deal.
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