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  • I am not like this. However I have had the experience of partners who were intensely erotically interested in an aspect of my body that would not normally be considered sexual. That does not bother me per se, and it can be a very enjoyable addition to sexual play, but I have no interest in erotic activity with someone who is interest in just one physical feature to the exclusion of all else. I also would not like other areas important to my own pleasure to go unappreciated.
  • I am strongly attracted to women with brains. One of my dearest female friends was my graduate student, another was a postdoc fellow of one of my colleagues. I have spent hours in the company of both of them, separately---They tended, for some reason, not to get on with each other--- talking, joking, discussing, arguing, and enjoyed the fact that they are women--so much better company than men: no dreary must-win-at-all-costs competition---and never wanted to be physically intimate with either of them. I am confident that they were not desperately yearning for my body either. I believe the perversion is called friendship. I also find some women with brains sexually attractive, so I am not exclusively concerned with a woman's intellect, but however attractive she might be otherwise, a woman without intelligence and the education to make use of it would leave me cold.
  • I must confess, I do not like penis. But I am super turned on by a man's shoulders. Especially muscular manly shoulders. Luckily, missionary position involves a lot of good views of his shoulders, and flexing of his upper arm muscles, so it works out OK. Too bad about what's going on with the penis down there, though ;)

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