by Lil B on April 7th, 2009

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Do you look down on people who have had an abortion?

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  • by Anonymous T. Jackson on April 7th, 2009

    Anonymous T. Jackson

    Old American Indian Proverb:

    "Never judge a woman unless you have walked a mile with her uterus."

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  • by Over and Out on April 7th, 2009

    Over and Out

    No I don't ... unless it's over and over again.

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  • by CoRoNa_ChiCK ILOVEMYH@TERS on April 7th, 2009

    CoRoNa_ChiCK ILOVEMYH@TERS

    There is only person i look down on and i lost all respect for this person because in there life time they had 8 and that is just disgusting.

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  • by Eileen on April 7th, 2009

    Eileen

    Nope I do not. My opinion on this again is nothing short of: it is not my business or my decision, its a choice one makes for themself.

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  • by Blackberry. on April 7th, 2009

    Blackberry.

    Nope. I would probably be more inclined to look down on a young woman with multiple kids and no education or career.

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  • by English Gal is back. on April 7th, 2009

    English Gal is back.

    I dont look down on people even though i dont agree with them but every case is different but when they keep getting pregnant and think its no big deal to keep having abortions that i dont agree with.

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  • by katie7576 on April 7th, 2009

    katie7576

    No, I do not.

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  • by Butterfly on April 7th, 2009

    Butterfly

    No. You do not have the right to judge--you don't know the reasons behind said abortion--
    There are any NUMBER of reasons why an intelligent, adult woman may have an abortion.
    1. The pregnancy was a risk to her life
    2. The fetus she was carrying had congenital abnormalities which would render it unviable
    3. She was young and ill-prepared for motherhood
    4. She was raped/sexually assualted

    There are even more possibilities beyond that. If you are pro-life, more power to you, but life is so much more complicated and not black and white at all. It is so easy to say "Oh if I got pregnant I would never..." or "Oh I would never do this..." etc. Wait until you are faced with that situation.

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  • by Major Look at yerself on April 7th, 2009

    Major Look at yerself

    Only if I am standing on a ladder. We are all human. We all do what we have to do. No-one is better than anyone else.

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  • by Morg the Army wife on April 7th, 2009

    Morg the Army wife

    If it wasn't to save their life and the fetus wasn't viable, I think what they did was wrong. Look down? No. We all do things that are wrong and I don't think I'm 'better' than people who have abortions. I just think it is murder.

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  • by ChuckExAnon on April 7th, 2009

    ChuckExAnon

    Truth be told, I'm 70 years old...and I don't know of any woman who actually had an abortion. I'm not saying none did. I'm saying they never felt a need to tell me about it, nor did anyone else find that need to tell me so of another.

    Am I the only one to be so ignorant? If so, I say my ignorance IS my bliss.

    +5

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  • by Ron C on April 7th, 2009

    Ron C

    No I don't unless it is used at the woman's main method of birth control. Frankly, any more than three abortions, a woman's tube should be tied because she has proven that she is too callus and self-centered to be a mother. If she has a child that lives, she would either be neglectful or abusive.

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  • by -_You Can Leave Your Hat On....- on April 7th, 2009

    -_You Can Leave Your Hat On....-

    never!

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  • by Anonymous on April 7th, 2009

    Anonymous

    No, of course not. I try not to look down on anyone, we have all made mistakes in our lives and I admire someone more for making the best of their life and moving on.

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  • by Ditto on April 7th, 2009

    Ditto

    It depends. If they treat it like a form of birth control, YES! In my eyes, if you do it once you should have learned your lesson. I wouldn't look down on a one time abortion. We all make mistakes. Doing it over and over though is simply wrong.

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  • by D.J. on April 7th, 2009

    D.J.

    No.

    I have no right to judge a woman's choice.

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  • by Piggle on April 7th, 2009

    Piggle

    What right do I have to judge someone because they made a decision I might not agree with.

    I take a poor view of anyone who uses abortion as a form of contraception, however it isn't a decision taken lightly and certainly in the UK you have to convince two doctors that you have considered all the options before the go ahead is granted.

    The anxiety and guilt will stay with the woman for the rest of her life - she doesn't need me making her feel ashamed on top of her own emotions!

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  • by TheJoker on April 7th, 2009

    TheJoker

    It would have no impact on my opinion of them :)

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  • by sidewalkchalk on April 7th, 2009

    sidewalkchalk

    No, I don't. But I do feel bad that they had to make that difficult decision and wonder if they have regrets.

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  • by Stillme FBB on April 18th, 2009

    Stillme FBB

    No, it's none of my business. Let he who has no sin cast the first stone.

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  • by subtlesledgehammer on April 16th, 2009

    subtlesledgehammer

    No. Why would I?

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  • by gailmarie on April 16th, 2009

    gailmarie

    I do not look down on someone who has an abortion. I DO LOOK DOWN on people who ABUSE the children the decided to have!

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  • by Satine on April 16th, 2009

    Satine

    No.
    One of my best friends had one a few months ago. I never judged her through the whole thing and I think she was very strong about it.

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  • by tempus on April 7th, 2009

    tempus

    Of course not. They would have their reasons for doing it.

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  • by Danilito on April 7th, 2009

    Danilito

    IF it was a mistake, no. If it is a habit, yes

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  • by The Mess on April 7th, 2009

    The Mess

    Yeah usually....if they're still laying on their back.

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  • by Ron-T on April 7th, 2009

    Ron-T

    no,they have there reasons.

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  • by Anon. on April 7th, 2009

    Anon.

    Never would I stoop so low.

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  • by Teresa on April 7th, 2009

    Teresa

    No, I consider an abortion a sometimes necessary tragedy. If their attitude about it is cavalier, I might feel offended if I'm in an uppity mood, but generally speaking, I'd consider it an unfortunate consequence of an unfortunate event, kind of like a coping mechanism.

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  • by Cognition aka Cog on April 16th, 2009

    Cognition aka Cog

    No, I am sympathetic to their situation, I feel bad they had to make that decision in their life.

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  • by stoneddora on April 7th, 2009

    stoneddora

    no, it is that persons choice not mine

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  • by Tsamaya is on semi-retirement on April 7th, 2009

    Tsamaya is on semi-retirement

    No....it's their body and I have no right to judge them....

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  • by Franklin on May 27th, 2009

    Franklin

    I don't look down on anybody, no matter what they've done.

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  • by UneFille on April 20th, 2009

    UneFille

    I have to add something else here....why is it acceptable to kill a baby before it's born but it is illegal afterward? It's hypocrisy.

    Abortion should only be used in special cases such as rape.

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  • by elaine2angel on April 20th, 2009

    elaine2angel

    no, what people do with their body is their business and none of my concern! thats the problem with society today everyone gets involved in stuff that dont concern them!!!!! its all very well not thinking it is a good thing to do, but what others do is no one elses problem!!!! would these people that think its bad look after the unwanted babies then?

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  • I look down on irresponsibility. If an abortion is due to irresponsible behavior then, yes.

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  • by lil miss sunshine on April 7th, 2009

    lil miss sunshine

    yes i do unless they did not want to have sex....it is on them because they had sex they made the choise and they should live with what happen

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  • by BradMuShRoOm on April 7th, 2009

    BradMuShRoOm

    Morally I am against it, but it all rly depends on the siituation wether or not its a just cause.

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  • by account closed. on April 7th, 2009

    account closed.

    of course not! Ive done WAY too many stupid things to judge what someone else does!

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  • No. I don't care whether she's had an abortion, I don't care if she's had twenty, I don't care if she took her uterus out and threw it over a fence. It's her money and her body, and the only thing I'm going to base my opinion of her on would be her personality.

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  • by Sid on April 7th, 2009

    Sid

    No, not at all, but I might if they had abortions plural.

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  • by Mosexy on April 7th, 2009

    Mosexy

    I try not to, but if I'm being honest, it's not easy for me.

    I just don't think about it unless I also know for a fact they are promiscuous and irresponsible. In which case, I will find their attitude towards human life tragic.

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  • by Bee on July 9th, 2009

    Bee

    I'm like most people. I look down on anyone who behaves as if the life of other humans have less value than their own.

    The difference is that I face the fact that the unborn are humans, by scientific definition. Abortion supporters are either ignorant to that fact or intentionally ignore it.

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  • by Nasiswand on May 28th, 2009

    Nasiswand

    Only 1. I had a friend in highschool who used abortion as her favorite form of birth control. After I found that out I couldn't even look at her anymore without getting pissed. She had had 5 abortions at the time our friendship ended, and who knows how many she's had since?

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  • by MrJosh on May 27th, 2009

    MrJosh

    How could I? That is such a difficult decision. I was not in their shoes, and I did not make it. You don't know what it is like if you aren't in that situation.

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  • by Don Gorgeous George on May 18th, 2009

    Don Gorgeous George

    No, I'm pro choice, but I look down on irresponsible sexual behavior.

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  • by molly on May 18th, 2009

    molly

    no sure it their choice , i jst personaly wouldnt do it myself

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  • by Bakebyday still baking.. on May 18th, 2009

    Bakebyday still baking..

    I don't look down on anyone that has to make a choice like that. It' a hard choice.

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  • by Franklin on May 18th, 2009

    Franklin

    I don't look down on anyone.

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  • by UneFille on April 20th, 2009

    UneFille

    It's not about looking down...I just feel sad it had to happen.

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