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  • I usually vent to my friends, my journal, my cat..whatever is there at the moment. It's usually not as bad as i thin it is at the beginning x3
  • I think the window shopping was a good way to vent. Better than bringing relatives into your relationship. I either retreat to another room with my laptop and/or watch tv. Sometimes I'll go out and take a drive to clear my head. Sometimes we'll just bitch until we start cracking each other up and forget what the fight was about to begin with;)
  • I flush his stash down the toilet and/or spaz out at him. I usually calm down quite quickly.
  • I take a walk and listen to my IPOD
  • i usually vent off by talking to my boyfriend. eventually we just hug each other in bed until we're not mad anymore... for some reason, holding each other when we're angry really helps soothes the situation. besides that, sometimes i also go out and get some fresh air to clear my head.
  • I don't really get mad very often, so I'm not really sure how to answer that question. What you did sounds good, though. I know I'd probably hate it if one of my siblings boyfriends or girlfriends came to me to complain about them.
  • I, personally, think that was a good idea. I haven't gotten mad enough to go somewhere in a long time, but that's what I use to do. I would either take a long run or walk, or go shopping, or some place he wasn't so I could get over it a little instead of fighting. I also have an older sister that I can confide in and sometimes would call her and vent, usually on my cellphone away from home so he wasn't in ear shot. She does the same thing with me and that seemed to work well. Now that we are older it hardly ever happens and I'm thankful for that. Whatever you do, don't vent to his family; and make sure who you do vent to because it might make the people you're venting to not like him and you don't want that to happen.
  • i have a very good relationship with my s/o, so i seldom get mad and when i do, its usually because he is telling me how hot other girls are or grossly checking out other girls. i used to try and talk to him about it, but the guys here on AB say i dont have a right to get mad when he wants to have sex with others, so now i just stew.
  • often it does not matter what they are mad at they often vent on their man. notice I said on and not to... this means if they can't blame it on him they find something trivial they can blame on him and gripe at him for leaving the toilet seat up or something. if a man does this half as much as women do it is emotional abuse
  • I vent in a journal, then I cool down and talk to him about it. But, in all honesty I rarely get mad at him and well...=_=;; He's pretty stoic about weathering emotions.
  • Your window shopping sounds like it worked. You're lucky! I have sometimes gone shopping to cool down and ended up spending too much money! Driving around helps, and I've ended up discovering new restaurants that way that I've later taken him too on dates! Usually when I drive around I end up seeing something that I want to show him, and then I realize that I really do love him and wish I was with him right then, and then I'm not angry anymore. Once I got really mad and drove off and slept in my car, and that was pretty bad. I've considered going to family or my in-laws, but I'm always glad after wards that I didn't. It won't help the relationship if our support network is taking sides! I've also spent time with friends to get space, but when I'm angry then that time with friends isn't so fun. Or I take a nap and usually feel better about it after I wake up.

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