Tell him to Kiss his mom!, and you know what else

iqnore him until he comes back to you. He eventually will.

Maybe it is worth your while to find out why he is working so much?

YOU DIDN'T SAY IF U REALLY LOVE HIM BC I NO THAT IT WILL MAKE IT EASIER FOR U TO LEAVE HIM. LOOK YOUR NOT GOING TO STOP HIM FROM DOING ANYTHING HE WANTS TO DO SO THIS GUY IS NOT WORTH BEING WITH. FIRST OFF MEN THINK THAT ALL WE DO IS NAG THEM BUT FOR US WERE TRYING TO EXPLIAN HOW WE FEEL AT TIME BEING SO LIKE IT GETS ME SO MAD WHEN MY HUSBAND INCLUDING MY HUSBAND WHO DON'T UNDERSTAND THAT WE LOVE BEING WITH THEM AND WE WANT TO HAVE FUN AND ENJOY OUR TIME WITH THEM BC IT MAKES US SO HAPPY. SO U REALLY DON'T SEE HIM TO OFTEN SO WHEN U DO U WANT TO MAKE THE BEST OF IT. HE IN THE OTHER HAND WANTS TO GO OUT THE WITH GUYS AND JUST KICK IT OR MAYBE WATCH TV AND WANT TO HAVE QUIET EVENING ALONE. SO HES NOT THINKING ABOUT U WHEN HE DOES THAT SO U GET MAD BC HES NOT PAYING ENOUGH ATTENTION TO U SO THEN HES GETS MAD BC UR NAGGING SO ITS ENDS UP IN BIG ARGUEMENT. TO BE HONEST WITH U THATS NOT GOING TO CHANGE I HATE TO BE MEAN BUT UR GUY IS SUCH A JERK BC HE LEFT U AND HES WITHS MOMMY NOW WHAT AN ASS OF HIM. DO NOT CALL HIM OR TALK TO HIM BC THEY ALWAYS COME BACK.........BUT ONLY IF U CAN DEAL WITH THIS LIFESTYLE OF HIS IF U CAN'T THEN U HAVE TO END IT NOW BEFORE IT GETS EVEN HARDER TO LEAVE HIM GOOD LUCK.

My father when we were growing up spent all his time working, to the outside world he was a prince to his family he was a big P. He treated his family like hired help. I grow up hating him. If he doesn't want to talk to you count your blessings this guy will put you second. I'm 65 and seen it to much. Believe it or not but your saving yourself a whole lot of pain. My mother kept saying she was going to divorce him but spent 30 miserable years being torn down by him. Like it or not you stay with him you'll play second fiddle to everything he wants to do. What do you sif he doesn't talk to you, scream Free at last Thank you God I'm free at last http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XNEsRbnEGXc

I've been married for 41 years to a man who is a work-a-holic. I would beg for just a little of his time. I never got any. I was as if everything else was more important. I've lost track of how many times I've asked him, why did he marry me. One day he finally said, "because someone else wanted me". The someone else was my first real love but although we were engaged, we were forbidden to marry. So I was out there on my own with no one else knocking on my door. I never dreamed I'd end up married to my husband because we are so different but here I am 41 years later. His attitude has driven a wedge between us. When ever we went someplace overnight, he always book a room with 2 double beds. I took the hint and he's very happy sleeping upstairs while I'm downstairs. This is not the marriage I had in mind but it is the marriage he had in mind. Being put behind work and everything else he wants, makes you feel un-important and un-appreciated. If you don't want to end up like me, please think long and hard about this relationship. He will never change because this is already an established pattern for him. This is pretty much what he is thinking ~ Now you come along and expect him to share his time.........I'm sorry, it's not going to happen. It's a lonely and frustrating life, to live with someone like that. I wish you happiness and peace in your heart.