Because its hard to actually find a good guy, who wants you because they love you, not because of sex.

Logically yes, however humans are highly illogical. It all goes back to instincts, "bad guys" show much more dominance than nice guys, thus they get the most attention.

you would think so---I think this is more with young women.

I can take a womens mind and shape it like clay just because they don't know what they want and I do. (most of them anyway) Women do want a bad boy and yes, they also want a good man. So whats the problem? "Good guy" is great in every way but he causes a women to loose interest quickly because within no time he is eating out of the palm of her hand and being way too nice. He bends to her will and is extreamly maluable. Bad boy is extreamly exciting unable to be predicted and creates this uncontrolable desire and interest because there's always a chase and the oportunity for the unkown. So where does this leave you? I'll get to that. Personally I'm the bad boy type but only when you are first getting to know me... I don't know you and have little to no consideration for your feelings or concerns and basically I'm going to do what I'm going to do and if you don't like it then go kick rocks barfoot. (so I've always got a lot of girls/women) My Problem was always being to much of a good guy when a girl made it through the hard outside and weasled her ass through too the creamy center. So, what happened? I was treated like a king for about 6 months. Head all the time,back rubs, cooked dinners, you know the good shit. Well after that 6 months when I start to actually dig this chick I found myself being treated worse and worse... She said I love you and all of that BS but what was different? Well I lost the bad boy I used to be, so to fix this I reclaimed my relationship by being nice but not caring anymore (or acting like it anyway) This isn't easy sometimes and you have to be in complete control of emotions but it can be done. I know because I did it. Now I enjoy being smug and cocky but at the same time can let my guard down for a night and enjoy and nice home snuggle in front of the TV. But don't let it down too often or else she'll find out and subcontiously treat you like a deusch bag. Basicaly the term I coined for this is be a "Nice Dickhead" Keeps them guessing and interested and you can have anyting you want. I hope this helped you, you emotional pansy moma's boy. Now go out there and be a bad boy/good man

A good man is a bit of a bad boy. A man unable to bend the rules a bit, afraid to hunt wild animals or nick some grapes is a bad provider. Hence his and her genes were less likely to continue. Making women lean more towards protective, gutsy and hardworking men. Just trace it all back to the stone age, and see what treats were essential for survival of the species. Women can even smell certain character treats; disliking someone without always knowing why. That's just half the story. Besides instinct&gut, ppl use their common sense as well. And in addition nature is a bit random in a blind search for the most adaptive design, creating ppl with deviating taste in partners. Not to forget womans needs change after giving birth. Making them fall for gutsy at first, and for nice in later life.

'Cause what a woman thinks she wants and what a woman actually wants at the time are two completely different things. Attraction doesn't have to make sense, now, does it? Now, personally, I am going to straight up admit that I don't want a "NICE" guy. "NICE" guys aren't exciting to me. They don't stimulate me enough. They just sit there and agree with everything I say. Oh, and if they don't, they just politely back out or politely find a way to end the conversation. I like a guy who can disagree with me and tell me about it. I like a guy who is completely honest with me. I like a guy who challenges me mentally. I like a guy who isn't afraid to argue with me, as long as the argument is legit. He's not a pushover, he's not whiny, and he doesn't complain too much. Of course, he'll have problems just like anyone else. The difference is that he will admit his mistakes. Also, he would have a sense of humour and know how to laugh at himself.