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Every situation is different. THere is no rule on what is proper....so i would say IF it ever feels uncomftable, then stop...otherwise go with your heart :o)
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WOULD I? Yes I would. IF i was a good terms and knew it wouldn't be a big deal if I had contact with the person.
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I can't conceive how a divorce could end "relatively well". Maybe you don't hurt badly.. but what about your ex? If you were so buddy-buddy, then you probably wouldn't have split up. I don't celebrate birthdays or holidays so the answer would be easy for me. I don't understand how people can divorce and then be "friends". If you share minor children together, it a good idea to be civilized to each other for their sake. I don't think that this question has a cut and dried answer... really depends on the individuals.
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It is a personal decision but for the sake of moving on and finding a new healthy relationship, I'd say stop all contact! There is a reason you didn't stay together and so you should put your energy into yourself for now. It's a nice thought and I struggled with it too after my divorce. Bottom line, you aren't together. Good luck.
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Congratulate? "Congratulations on lasting another year"? If the divorce ended amicably, I would acknowledge them on birthdays and holidays, yes, with a card or a phone call, whatever was more normal for me. "Proper" doesn't come into it: it depends on the specifics of each situation.
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Again follow your heart ... good advice .. but you need to realize taking time to congratulate him is friendship and it means you really still care about him and are still wanting him to like you... since the relationship was intimate it will be difficult for you to remain friends without getting intimate again (and I don't necessarily mean sexual) but intimate in sharing thoughts etc... ... you just need to realize that that may not be healthy for you and him to grow if you are really now on different paths ... so .. again.. follow your heart .. but it may break again or someone elses..
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I wouldn't communicate with him at all..Good bye to you..and hello to the new me..
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