How can I hurt the "friends" who ignore me?
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hailtothedarkduck
ANSWERS: 18
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You don't. It's petty and stupid. The best thing you can do is go make new and better friends, go have fun and forget about them. That's the best revenge
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If they ignore you, maybe there is a reason. Why don't you just ignore them too? Go find some new friends.
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Why waste the energy to hurt them? Just move along and don't worry about it. If they are ignoring you, I would hardly classify them as "friends" anyway.
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you don't, walk away and be the bigger person here. Go and find some new friends who like you for who you are, I will be your friend.
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I'm sorry, but I'm having a difficult time understanding wanting to hurt friends. I also do not understand friends who ignore you. My suggestion is to stop worrying about these people and find some REAL friends.
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If your "friends" are ignoring you, there must be a reason. I am not saying it is a valid reason, but there must be one. I would ask someone and if they continue to ignore me and won't even answer my question, start dealing with it. I am unsure of how old you are so it is hard to answer this question. If you are in school, this can be very painful and embarrassing and it can be very hard to just make new friends. If you are an adult and they are co-workers, I would try to figure out something. I have had this conflict in the past and I brought it up at a meeting and said that we were all having tension and we shoudl just lay everything out on the table. We did and things started to resolve once they were spoken aloud. Perhaps, you flirted with someone that another friend likes and they all hate you for it, but if they get a chance to speak their mind, things will get better. Just an example. Try seeing if you can't get at the bottom of why they would suddenly ostracize you from the group.
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You don't hurt another person. I can tell by the revenge of your words, why they chose to ignore you
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They are not your friends if they ignore you. Don't give into the lie. And vegenance is not the way. Don't lower yourself. You are much better than that. Just ignore these non-friends back. You are allowing them to waste your valuable time.
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Ignore them back? I don't know where this is going... but I'd suggest you to find real friends so that these "friends" get all jealous. Good Luck :P
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People who ignore you are not friends. Find people who include you. They are friends. Don't waste energy getting back on them. To paraphrase the Bible: love your enemies. It'll drive 'em crazy.
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If they ignore you they are not friends , Ignore them and make new friends with people that have a little more compassion and depth of character
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I'm in the same situation. I just ignore them back when they *do* try to talk to me.
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You shouldn't hurt them because they ignore you.
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u know im experiencing it now what i am doin is breaking the relatio ship of my friends hu left me....by going around skool toking bout them..........................im making new friends...i do sms my frends hu ignore me.......other thing tat i did is this is mr a and this is mr b i buy a sim card and register it under my A and then i sms all bad thing about mr b using mr a new sim card so then they will fight it can be hurtful sometimes.....coz i did alot for them
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Why bother, move on!
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just by moving on, and being happy, without them
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Stay friends with them! If they are ignoring you they obviously don't like you so that would really piss them off!
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If you want to hurt them, how can they be friends?
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