unfortunatly the only cure is time. they say time heels all, but if you are inpatient like myself then i find the old erase ,replace method is best.. good luck.. try listening to music always makes me feel better

Yes, of course you're lonely! You just lost a relationship, your best friend, the person you talked to about everything. Even though you broke it off and it was the right thing to do, it still hurts. The pain is almost unbearable, isn't it? I know, I'm not cheering you up. But hang in there... The only thing you can do now is heal. Give yourself time to deal with the sadness, the grieving, the pain of it. So, now you want him back to fix your pain, but you know that would be a really bad idea, yes? Be strong, leave him alone. In order to get through this as quickly as possible, don't have any contact with him. Every time you talk to him or text him or anything, it will put you both right back in pain. It seems like a really easy way to stop the pain, but it would just cause more torture for both of you. Wait until your feelings are really, really settled before you even think of talking to him. It generally takes a month, minimum, to feel sort-of normal. That probably sounds horrible. I've been there! So, while you're healing, lean on your friends. Talk to them, cry on a friend's shoulder. Crying is especially useful because it helps you let go of the pain. Do it. When you feel like you can, go out and do things with family and friends and be around people. Little by little, day by day, you'll feel better, in baby steps. Notice these tiny improvements and know you're making progress toward happiness. Once you feel better, you'll be more grown-up as a human being, and you'll know much more about relationships than you did before you met your ex. Eventually a guy will cross your path, say "hi", and you'll think "wow". Then, off you go on your next romantic adventure. In other words, your life doesn't end here. You will be fine ... in time. I hope this helps.