What would you do if someone that hurt you in the past tries to contact you again?
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Zack Be Gone - All Hail Firebrand.
ANSWERS: 9
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I assume when you say hurt that you mean emotionally. I could be civil but they would never get close to me ever again. The trust would not be there.
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i wouldnt want to know. i would tell that too
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If you are talking emotionally that would depend on how they hurt you. Was it the first time? Is it ongoing? What events led to it? Try to understand also that you do know what emotional state this person was in. Just because you may have been friends or whatever doesn't mean anything. People don't often tell you what they feel all the time. They may have recently gotten bad news or just had a bad day. - I would suggest talking to them before you write off a friendship if it was one. People say things they often regret later. I have heard so many of my patients say "I was upset and didn't mean it and now I regret it". It happens. - So it would depend on the relationship, how close you were, the circumstances. Talking can't hurt but losing friends is a big deal so think hard before you do something you will regret. Remember they don't know what you are thinking/feeling and you don't know what they are going through. Good luck.
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If your talking personaly, then leave it, you have enough to deal with, I will always be there!
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Depends what they did and why they wanted contact...
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Ignore them...I don't need any more grief...
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There are those on here that could tell you. I forgive them but ask them to be more careful with my feelings in the future.
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Try to dodge them as much as possible, if they didnt get the message - tell them outright i want nothing to do with them.
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I would probably be open to talking to them again. I forgive easially.
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