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  • I don't think they mind that you look at it, but shouldn’t obviously stare at it. Then that would be disrespectful toward the women. There’s a nice way to look at things and a not so nice way to look at certain things.
  • It depends on who you're talking about. Girls that wear inappropriately low shirts are definitely asking for some attention. You can still look hot without showing all the goodies at once. But in my case, I have a large chest and do lots of things to NOT have them be noticed. But guys stare anyways which makes me SO uncomfortable. Guys like that make me feel like I'm nothing but a piece of ass.
  • Actually, for many women, it's difficult NOT to "flaunt" them, to have them supported correctly. Those whose chest enters a room LONG before they do, obviously can't do that much to mitigate it. Even those will small "chests" can't help it. It's the way women are made. Thing is that people don't like being stared at, and considered THAT different from everyone else. I'm 6'-9" tall, and don't like that to be brought to a LOT of peoples' attention, but I understand it, because I believe I feel the same as they do, when I meet anyone my height or taller. Women are the same way about their chests. Keep your eye on them just that touch too long, and WHAM! (Same goes if your GF or wife catches you looking!) You must train your mind, grasshopper, to "take a picture" with your eyes, and spend the next few seconds as you continue past them, processing it, rather than STARE. (Besides... The imagination is usually MUCH better than the real thing.) Or learn the long-distance, side-ways look... When you're a good distance from them, turn and point your face at something about 20-30 feet from them, then use your peripheral vision, or even glace at them. There are ways, and there are ways. Remember, though... It COULD be (at some point in your life) your sister, your mother, your aunt... your daughter ... being stared at. And it's a sure bet that it's SOMEBODY's.
  • They don't always flaunt it, sometimes they just have big chests and anything other than a turtleneck becomes revealing. As for girls who dress with their chests showing, whether they do it because it goes with their style of fashion, or they want you to look at it, I'd imagine most wouldn't want you to STARE, just catch a glimpse. Staring tends to make people feel a bit uncomfortable. Anyway, to me it has always felt a bit unfair -- if any of my cleavage shows, I'm "flaunting" it, but if a guy goes around shirtless, no one cares. It's just a part of the body, and I don't have boobs just for everyone else's pleasure.
  • Human nature is very unpredictable.When you get more of something you get sick of it and when you don't get it at all you strive for it like a lemonade in desert. .. Like wise too much of staring may make them feel akward and consious but,when they don't get any they'd like to have it. It's not a generalization.Of course women are there who take things as they come their way and live upto their own expectations.Stuffs differ from person to person.
  • They're always properly clothed but it's not like I can stick them in my handbag to avoid unwanted attention;)
  • What's wrong with wanting to feel womanly?
  • We do like to get noticed but feel akward if someone keeps staring.
  • Its restricted in Islam to open the chest. It teaches modesty.
  • that depends. If I wear a low cut t shirt and someone looks ahh who cares. I know I look at a woman's chest when its out for me to look at. Can't help it. but glancing and staring is really two different things. Staring overtly is weird and uncomfortable for everyone involved, even the DD's
  • It's similar to the question, why do some girls wear shorts with writing on them, if they don't want you looking at your behind. I don't understand it.
  • well, would you want a woman to stare at your crotch? nevermind, you probably would lol
  • sometimes you look and dont mean to, staring is just rude
  • Fantastoc question! I also find that women wear the Highest heel of shoes they can find in order to meet and possibly get the tallest fella possible! Why can't women just be themeslves? They cover themselves more decently and expect that they'll not get the most attention from Fellas or they flaunt their chest and expect to get stared at! Same principle applies with the really short skirts! Sissco
  • One of the best questions I have ever seen at answerbag. And since I'm a guy I have no answers for you.
  • So we have something to be pissed off about!!!!.....LOL....
  • this is one of my biggest questions.
  • i dont know what kind of women you look at i love being checked out means im sexy. you can look but you can't touch. if women openly display cleavage or legs, its an open invitation for eyes, so go ahead and look. skin that people usually don't see attracts eyes very quickly when you don't even mean to look. even the stares of other women! if they didnt want people to see it theyd cover it. end of story.
  • AMEN !!!
  • yeah, i know. if women don't want to be raped, why do they dress like sluts? just for the record, i'm being sarcastic.
  • THE SAME REASON WHY YALL MEN FLAUNT YOUR MONEY
  • good question... it does´nt make any sense..
  • The fashion trend with low cut tops seem made to display breast. I don't stare but I do look, I'm just being polite. My wife says it's because our mothers stopped breast feeding too soon.
  • flaunted or not they get stared at lol
  • ok well ill awnser your q if u awnser mine u look at ours but were not supposed to look at your? mezzed up
  • are you looking or staring? an occasional look at our actual eyes sometimes helps so just remember to look back up sometimes and you should be good
  • Reallly depends who are your admirers- if they are attractive and attracted to you - you may interpret it as Wow i've got the looks!! But for less attractive characters may not be so inviting. As for the same sex some can be competitive among themselves. If the lady INTENTIONALY wears something REVELING that is...it's quite a disappointment to her if she's being ignored all through the day!!
  • Because they want the attention, but only from men they are attracted to. A woman who wants NOBODY staring at her breasts does not wear a lowcut blouse. That same woman that goes off on you for staring, will flaunt her chest even harder if it's Brad Pitt staring.
  • I have a huge bust, but I keep it covered. One man said to me last week that I could sell a ton of sweaters! Not showing everything is better than showing too much! LOL!
  • They may not like their own bodies, so they do this as a way to make sure guys/girls want to look at and maybe even like some part of their body. Then for the girls/women that don't have a problem with their bodies they like to show them off, it makes them feel even better. Then there is the theory that women that do make a point of showing off their chest really don't care if men stare, but when asked the question they may seem the correct answer is to say they don't like it.
  • women who dont want you to look, dont flaunt it. women who do, do! (i find that it doesnt matter if it is displayed or not, theyy still oggle, invited or not)
  • I think women want men to stare at their chest as much as I'd like women to stare at my package. If you got it, flaunt it!
  • whoopsie.
  • I think that you feel self conscious if ppl are staring at you. Trust me women stare at you much more than guys!!!! I remember the time I saw this woman dressed really smart, and I noticed that there were two other girls that were staring so much at her legs, as if they were wishing that they'd become stubbly or something! When I am dressed nicely, I jst hate the stares you get from other women, like they are wishing you became fat in front of their eyes or something!
  • Doesnt matter, if they chose not to flaunt it.. we just check out their ass instead :D
  • I have never flaunted my breasts, but lets face it, like it or not they are obvious anyway. I was always big in that area and although I covered myself well at the age of 13 I had 20 year olds trying to touch me. Why can't men appreciate without drooling? Glancing at a nice figure is one thing, staring is always rude no matter what.
  • The truly generously gifted don't have to flaunt them. When their that bestowed with the goods there is no way to hide them, as they draw MORE attention than our Christ could on judgment day!!!
  • not EVERY girl flaunts their boobies. the girls who flash you with their chest, that's what we call sluts. or it could just be an accident that it's showing. IDK. but those who aren't sluts, they don't wear things wanting to make you stare. they wear things just cuz they feel like it. we don't get dressed thinking "how does my boobs look?" well i don't. but, maybe inconspicuous glances are fine, but when you're just staring & not even giving their face a second thought, now that is what we hate. it makes us think that you just want to get into out pants. i think.
  • All of us, men and women, want to catch the opposite sex's attention. This happened only yesterday. A lady (mid thirties) was reading a book on a bench on the railway platform when I (pushing sixty) passed by. She casually glanced at me, and I saw she had a beautiful face. A few feet later I glanced back at her just to have a last look before she would disappear in the crowd. And she was looking straight at me. Our eyes met. How I loved it!
  • God question. I don't flaunt my chest around. I don't like guys staring at my chest.

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