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by ROXiE on February 8th, 2007

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Im a shy person i socailize but in a diff way. ill talk if the person talk to me first but im too shy to go up to a person and talk. is that bad? people say it is ...

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  • by dumdum on October 17th, 2008

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    Is it normal, what should I think, what should I do, and is it right / wrong, bad or good? Go with what works for you, dance to the beat of your own drummer and get on with living. No, no, and no it's not bad. If that is where you feel comfort - great. If a time comes when you feel the need to become more out going there are ways to ease into that; but do so because you wish, not someone else covinced you to do.

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  • by CaptainHarley adores his life penguin on October 17th, 2008

    CaptainHarley adores his life penguin

    No, although it does limit you somewhat in your relations with others. I was painfully shy all the way through middle school and high school, and only began to come out of my shell in college and later in the military.

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  • by Done. never again. on October 17th, 2008

    Done. never again.

    Not at all. I'm shy and found it's best to accept it, and be happy.

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  • by anonymous on February 8th, 2007

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    i m like that too but not all the time, only sometimes....nothing is wrong with it, but you should know how to be able to approach people

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  • by Mastodon on October 17th, 2008

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    Yes

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  • by wthing8 on October 17th, 2008

    wthing8

    are you really asking this? STAND UP

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  • by Stingray on October 17th, 2008

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    No its not that bad, but sometimes being loud/spontanious/out there...etc can be good!

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  • by DudeLer 2 on October 17th, 2008

    DudeLer 2

    I think most people are naturally shy. Stepping out and meeting people is a learned skill. Certainly some come to it naturally, through genes from parents. I know I was pretty shy. Then as a challenge to myself I did door to door sales one summer. I learned more that summer about people then I knew before. I learned a lot about myself. So dont let shyness stop you! Step out because most people are friendly. I just laugh at the ones who are not. Its okay to be shy.

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  • by Tinkabelle on February 8th, 2007

    Tinkabelle

    There's nothing wrong with it- in fact, alot of people have this trait. Having good social skills come in handy, but allowing people to approach you before approaching them is in no way "bad". That's the way you are, and being true to yourself is key, rather than going by what people think.

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