yes, it makes it slippery so the hand can slip. Hurts less

Eroticly? No. For punishment yes, I've spanked and I've been spanked that way, it gets VERY painful. One way is to soak a wooden spoon in a pitcher of water. Another way is the bottom gets corner time with damp wash cloths held in place with underwear, panties, or pantyhose for at least 10 mins. The spanking proceeds with a lexan paddle... Extrememly painful.

Yes to all three questions. My wife (6'2" 190 lbs.) will on occasion catch me (5'10" 165 lbs.) coming out of the shower and before I dry off grabs my arm and pulls me over to our bed turning me over her knee and spanks me dry. Then she rides me to our mutual satisfaction. Some times she has me pay homage to her hiney and thank her for spanking me and end in a 69 position until we both lose control. A couple of times we had gone camping and in the heat of the day skinny dipping as we pick isolated areas to go hiking and camping to be alone and away from the pressures of normal day to day life. One day in particular stands out for me. We were swimming and splashing around for a while when Amanda was getting cold and decided to get out and dry off in the sun. When I got out she had already put her shorts, tank top and sandals back on. My teeth were chattering and I reached for a towel to dry my face and had just finished my front when Amanda said didn't I tell you to get out sooner? Now look at you you are going to catch your death being so cold i need to warm you up fast and with that she turned me over her knee and started to dry me off and warm me up all at the same time. Just the a canoe with two woman in there mid 50's paddled around a bend and came into view both must have heard my spanking and must have looked in our direction making eye contact with my wife. Don't look now but we have an audience. What? I tried getting up but my wife was having non of it and held me down as her hand went up and down. One of the ladies ask what was going on and my wife said that her and her husband were having a discussion that had just followed an argument and she was getting to the bottom of it. Both ladies started laughing and gave there agreement and encouragement. They asked her if that was how she ended all of there arguments to which she replied no. Sometimes they end like this, and with that she slipped of a leather sandal and started paddling me with it and I started kicking and begging her to stop and that wouldn't do it again. To which both ladies roared with laughter and ask my wife if she wanted to borrow one of there paddles to which she politely refused stating that she was more woman than her little markiee could handle. She then stood me up as I rubbed my heiny and danced around. One of the ladies said that it didn't look like I disliked it too much as I looked down I noticed that I was at attention and ran off into the woods. My wife followed me back to our camp site with my clothes and told me how brave I was and how proud that I was able to take such a spanking in front of an audience of women like that. As a reward she put our towels down and had me lie down on my back as she went down on me and took out some hand cream and lightly squeeze my testicles and just before I lost control slipped a finger into me to massage my prostate sending me over the edge just the way I like. markiee