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i can feel your pain %100. the exact samething happened to me. i am the male, but the rules still apply. i was with her 5 years, never had intercourse. (she was a rape victim and it was not possible) but i loved her. we were frineds forever and she only knew i loved her for the last year of it. the thing that puzzles me is that friendship should seal the relationship air-tight. how can this happen?!?!?! but after dealing with this long enough my advice to you is simple. if you love him. tell him. this will either kill the whole thing or seal it again(it killed mine but i have no regrets) if he is not worth the stress: be happy with frinedship. the final issue is that you must risk the friendship to save the love, double or nothing. and the grieving is hard after this crashes down, frinedship is good enough to let him play around for a few years and possible cime back to you. i know my advice seems conflicting but these are the options and i do not endorse any 1 choice because i dont know all the facts.
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I'll give you the short version. The relationship is never going to happen. Adjust your expectations or prepare for lots of disappointment, hurt feelings, and perhaps losing him altogether as a friend. good luck.
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