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  • Also,hes been with people before we dated and the thought of that makes me sick now...even though it was before we dated..is there something wrong with me?!?
  • 1st of all, I hope he used protection ... and that y'all do as well. If he didn't, you both need to get tested for STD's... and that does include HIV testing. Because of what he did, he has broken the trust. Can you trust him again? That is up to you. You can forgive him if you truly believe he is sorry, but I doubt you will ever forget. Your relationship is forever changed because of his one night fling. Whatever you do, don't put yourself through torture. If you can't trust him anymore, than for your own emotional well being, go your own way. You deserve to be with a man who will treat you the way you should to be treated... with respect and love.
  • Love and sex are different and three years is a lot to throw away. Men's sex drives can overrule their better sense and it sounds like he really regrets slipping up. You might be being a little self-centered, being so hard on him, and if you do lose him because you're thinking so much about how much you were injured, he might be better off. Lighten up and enjoy the guy who wants you around, and don't worry about whether or not you can forgive him, because if you look at the motives behind it, if you can't forgive him, then you don't love him and you should free him up to meet someone who is more self-confident.

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